Is there any Need for girl to go her Husband's home after Marriage????????????

I'm sorry but I guess i would beg to disagree with your idea. If you feel like a guest husband and wife scenario there then maybe it will work for you. I can't imagine that between me and my husband. However, you can always stay out of your family's house and have your own and alone. You don't have to live your husband's house. It is not necessary I guess unless it has been your choice to stay there. In our case we had a choice to stay with his family but we didn't. Sometimes my mom stays with us to help us with the kids but we have our own house and we make our own decisions. To avoid in-law problems better have your own house and start living on your own.

Your Question is very good to all. Women are not slaves to males. They should have freedom in all walks of life in cluding the married life. They should be allowed to live either with husband or with her own parents as long as they like. But the community may have a system of family. If they want to respect this relationship,(the women) they automatically would like to get bonded with husband and children. This would be their ultimate landing point. But real life is where people are flexible to each other. There should be no fixed rule that the girl should leave her parents while joining her husband. The couple also should trust each other in life. This is where a real life is sweeter than living alone.

there's no NEED. it's a choice. I chose to have both of our surnames. to me that is the most symbolic of two equals becoming a unit. I didn't cry before we got married, I was very very excited. me, mister, the bridesmaid, some close friends and our photographer and her partner all had a chinese together to plan the day, were really happy and excited, then went to bed. on the day itself I wasn't nervous at all either. just so so so happy.

Why not just date? Why get married if you aren't going to live together afterwards? I have been married and divorced, and there are going to be quarrels between husbands and wives, she is not always going to get along with the mother-in-law. Sounds great, in a perfect world, but we don't live in a perfect world. If you get married, then it's time to move on with married life, have your own place and learn to deal with issues that come up on a daily basis.

I think that when you marry, you marry your husband/wife, and only that person. Despite what some people might think, you don't marry his or her family, and you're not forced in any way. If you want to go to your husband's/wife's home after marriage, good, as that probably means that you have a good relationship with them. If you don't want to, good too, as it's not an obligation

This can be yes also or no also.I think so they must go to husband home.because after marriage the husband and wife should be together.and in real they want each other company.he most of familys expenditure run on husbands income.thats why i can say they must be go to husband home

In my country, when a couple gets married, they usually have a home or a place of their own. They do not live with their parents unless it is for financial reasons. Is there any way you and your husband can move out of his mom's house into a place of your own? If so, do it. Then your mother-in-law can come visit you. She can come over for dinner or afternoon tea. But then you don't have to live with her 24/7. I hope things work out for you and your hubby.

Why should you marry someone if you're not ready to move in with him/her? Why should they get married if in the end they'd have some type of an arrangement so as they won't need to be together or together with the family? There's no clear logic to the idea because when you get married you (both of you) are supposedly one body and should move out of your parents' homes and build one for yourselves. Should it be too financially straining to do so, one must move in with the other with his/her family. There will be no quarrels if in laws don't meddle with the affairs. The faster that they leave their parents' homes, the faster they could start their family in their own term. My brother is married and they're living with us for now. We all understand the boundaries of married life and we do not meddle with their quarrels or fights. We are just here as a family and we do not interfere with their lives. We understand that they still need some time to be able to stand on their own, and for now the arrangement is doing well.

It's possible that way but it will just make things more complicated. Why not just stay with the husband and go home if you need to? That's how It's supposed to be anyway.

Well its a general custom in India. I feel personally a girl is required to go the inlaws home to take care of the hubby and his parents. And the sons remain at their home. Ladies have great tendency to run or organize a family well. In mothers home, she has his brother who will take care of their mothers. But its all mutual understanding of maintaining good relation with inlaw and mothers family.