who would you rather talk to?
By chilango36
@chilango36 (20)
Mexico
7 responses
@maleforsplicer (75)
• United States
4 Apr 10
I rather talk to someone really close. LOL i thin it would be awkward to talk to a stranger about a problem.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Apr 10
In most situations I would prefer to talk to my husband or a close friend instead of a stranger. I feel more comfortable talking to a person that I know very well. I trust my husband and my close friends, amd I am not afraid to tell them about my problems or ask them for advice.
On the other hand it is possible to get great advice from a stranger sometimes. Some years ago I was chatting online. In that period of my life I had some problems with my ex-boyfriend, and when I had a private conversation with someone from the chatsite I told him about the problems and he gave some great advice. We only talked to eachother once, but he helped me a lot and he gave some advice which was really useful for me in my situation.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
4 Apr 10
I would have to say I feel more comfortable talking to a stranger. You don't have to worry about offending them and vice versa. I think they will give you a truer opinion than someone who is your friend. I saw someone for awhile that was a stranger. She wasn't a therapist, but she was like that. After awhile we became friendly, but not friends. I think it was much easier to tell her my concerns than my friends. I think she was very honest with me, while I am not sure my friends would be, because of my feelings. I am always worried that my friends will be offended, or think there is something they should do. Sometimes just the discussion is all that is needed.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
I don't think talking to a complete stranger is an option. I don't even think that it's right. If you just blurt out your problems to a stranger you might get punched in the face or something.
@Alleyne (4)
• United States
4 Apr 10
I would prefer to talk to my friends and family , but some thoughts or feelings that you have,you just would rather not share with a family or friend, where a complete stranger would not judge you or look down on you for having that thought or feeling. so you can share it all,
@buccha (59)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
I feel comfortable when talking to strangers but not totally like you just met the person for the first time then you start talking, strangers like a friend of a friend or a relative whom you are not really close to. I feel so easy with them, they give you the truth because their is no bias in them.
@Neatteo (156)
• Malaysia
4 Apr 10
Talk to stranger or to your close friend have it's own pros and cons.
Strangers:
Pro - They don't know about you and your life, they will speak honestly what they are thinking about.
Con - The resolution that they are giving maybe against your culture.
Close friend:
Pro - They know, feel, and understand your situation, they will give the best advice.
Con - They won't tell the truth whether you are right or wrong because they don't want to hurt you.
These are some of the example of my opinion.
However, I choose my close friends when I feel to talk to.