I don't know what to say

Hi gambamarcela, It is really hard to give our unique comment for every responses that our discussion has. It is totally brain drained and exhausted experience especially if we receive a few pages of responses (one page has ten responses) for one discussion. More so if most of it are similar responses. What I do if I face that kind of problem is I will leave my comment for those responses until I can not think another one for the next response. I will take a break (it is up to you how long you want to) for a while. I will freshen my mind and be ready before I am going back to that discussion. It is not good actually to leave some responses unattended. The responder might think that we are selective in our comment. They might not come back to our future discussion. And because of this problem, I rarely started a discussion and prefer to response to others. Good luck.

I guess responding to a commenter would really make your topic a "discussion" in the truest sense of the word. It would help to respond to them, but I don't think you're really obliged, especially if you don't know what to say at the moment. I'm like that, too, especially if someone responded to a discussion I made weeks ago. But most of the time, I try to respond to them to tell them I appreciate the time they take reading and responding to my discussions.

it is not that much hard, just like whatsoever i am commenting u can add your comment as- well said and bla bla, it is not at all hard dear

i guess that is natural specially when your discusion has a big number of response. i only comment on people who responded long enough for me to get a chance to interact. if the response is too short then i am going to have a problem on what to comment. so i dont comment in every single response. thats how i do it. it is cool to get a comment but its okay for me if there is none for me.

Hehehe. Well, it actually depends on you, whether you would comment or not, but personally, I try to comment on each of the responses cause it's a nice way of showing them that you really read and appreciate their comments. But there are some responses that really can confuse you and you just don't know what to say, in those times I usually just say thanks for responding or have a nice day, or even both. LOL.

Well, I have the similar feelings like you sometimes.When I read the response I feel some difficuty to comment it cause my English isn't good enough to support me to comment all the responses.Especially when some responses are almost the same. But I comment them all almost everytime.I just want to show that I do read it serious and I am grateful for their time to sharing their feeling with me.So sometimes I just comment "Thank you very much."

you know, there are really days when sometimes we don't have anything to say; but just being sincere is enough--we don't need to have too many words to express how we feel

How about thinking that a discussion here on myLot is the same as a conversation offline? You would find something, no matter how short, to say to everyone who was involved in an offline conversation and here is just the same. As you have already seen, just saying 'thank you' is not enough but if you imagine that you are talking to a bunch of people (rather than working or doing something at school) it will all become easier - and FUN!

gambamarcela Hi you are just being too hard on yourself. gambamarcela you need self confidence,just trust yourself and you will make great comments, you do not need to be a brain or an Einstein, we here in mylot are not that picky at all, just respond with what you honestley think we all will understand. I am no brain but I do okay, you will be just fine. Commenting on the responses to your discussion are a great way to really make earnings and people sort of dislike it when nobody comments on the responses we took time to write. go ahead and just make comments on how you feel about the response. do not feel dumb, you sound most intelligent.hugs from hatley.you can do it.okay?

you're not really obliged, but it would help your earnings. dont worry too much about commenting back, maybe you are just suffering from writer's block. :) enjoy mylot and the words will come. :)

...Hi gambamarcela, If you want to give meaningful response to the comments, it can become a problem. One of my discussions had over 34 responses which I was thrilled that so many people found the discussion interesting enough to address. But it is a challenge to respond to all of them. But besides that, you earn by responding.So I have taken to breaking my responses into sections, 4 or 5 at one tine, log out and come back for 4 or 5 more until, I have completed each one. You then have time to rest your brain. I try to answer everyone who responses out of respect for the fact that they took the time to write. Take care.

Its ok not to respond from it. I too don't do it if it weren't in my interest. some do that thing here.

just same here my friend, sometimes i don't like to response the discussion in here, maybe can't relate the discussion, sometimes not in the mood..

i think it is just caused u don't read completely of the discussion and Not focussing when the first you write something in yyour brain. but although u give a little comment of ur disscusion it's no problem.