When bad things happen to you how do you cope up to it?

i actually donnot care whether it is bad time or good time but just gone on with my life enjoying each and every moments.

I guess it all depends on your outlook on life. I don't and never have believed or expected life to be all fun and games. A big part of everyone's life is stressful, painful etc. When things are not so good all you can do is face the problems head-on and do whatever you can to cope with them or if possible make them better. Keep in mind that while the good times don't last forever....neither do the bad times.

hey buddy leave evrything to time, each and everything is attained as per direction by god. Do not worry about your problems because there might be something great and good thing happens in your life other than this what happened now, so don't worry

I am more to lure myself to think most of the times of good things and look on the positive side but their times even the most saintly person is beset by troubles and have to isolate herself from the sources of stress because at first she could tolerate it but when it becomes so obvious it sucking one energy need to rest, unwind or left the cause of stressor once in a while to relax one mind. It is one good things human have the capability to calm self and think about renewal and discharging those bad energy and although the bad elements could not vanish in an instant. A rest of mind and keeping the body in great shape is a lot of help keeping the mind healthy and just think of the good fun. Whenever I encounter bad things like a bad person or anything I just smile or burst a laughter for me someone just like to be notice and one targeted me. I could have no control over someone attitude or behavior some nasty and some think like evil it is the things which make them happy making other miserable but i would not let them affect me as most of the times i just chew then spit them for awhile. I think one need to be strong to face any disturbance and destruction and one things which is not fair when you have a coward enemy and he/she does not even introduce herself/himself to me. I just laugh on them terribly till my belly hurt. Because they create problem about me and they would not stop so on the end they would be the losers since they do not even know to balance their life as life is so short for me no time to put a grudge it is totally a waste of my time and energy when supposedly I have more fruitful things to do. I just like to know that life would not stop when one encounter bad moments life is a struggle it would continue like being recycle for some time and one need to face it bad or good here it comes and in the end when one able to surpass those challenges it would only makes anyone a better person than the nasty and trouble maker..

Just this week something really bad happened to me.. It hurt my feelings but I am all good now because I realized that it is not something to dwell on to.. I cope up with the bad things that are happening in my life by hanging out with my friends because with my friends, I feel comfortable, they understand me, and they manage to make me smile even of I have problems and they would stay with me as long as I want to. I also listen to music when problematic or watch a movie to entertain myself.. :)

actually what i do is pray and think of the positive na lang. there were times when i felt na "why does this have to happen" then after some time when i step back and reflect, things fell into place pala, good or "bad." i try my best to stay positive na lang and learning experience to help me move on.

wow... love problem. it is really depend. and who break up first? if u think it always hard between u and her then u have to find out more/learn more about her... I am not good with love thing, so good luck to u

i guess you need a little break, go out with friends, go out of town avoid too much thinking about her, if its your fault then try to ask forgiveness and if she didnt accept it then let her be coz she will be the one to open up to talk to you once shes ok, if not then it means her love is not that deep and you need to look for another one, true love actually accept and understand and not selfish and cruel. and if you love someone i dont think you will hurt the one you love, so if she ignore you then ignore her and go on with your life. if she call you nor message you then go back and do your best again.

How I cope with it always depend on the situation and the problem I'm at....But one thing for sure is I have to look forward to something to get by....I can't live live simply just by withstanding bad things...

Hi a98231 Here is my opinion, no matter you have how difficult problem, just remember this: do not give up, because just now is bad time, maybe after a few of days, everythings will be ok, trust me, it works, I mean that sentence. Just remember that sentence, you can over come any problems. Particularly girlfriend, dont worry, buddy, you will find better girl friend one day,very soon.

We are here in this world not only to enjoy all the good things life can offer but also the opposite. If we're aware of all the natural happenings whether good or bad, surely we can cope up with everything and surpass all circumstances in great victory. Have a good day to you!

At first i get terrified. But then when im calm enough i ask myself and try to analyze the situation and them from there think of ways on how to mend things and how to pick myself up. Its a great deal for someone to face his or her problems and pick himself until we will be able to find courage to face every problems or whatever situation that your in. Have a great day! and happy my lotting!

Just believe in yourself. No one could help ourselves but us. Same with the fact that no one really cares if we're miserable, so we might as well be happy.

It actually helps to believe in yourself. That only you could uplift yourself. No one really care if you're miserable so you might as well be happy.