Friendship or Romance?

Philippines
November 16, 2006 3:03am CST
This situation is very comon to us.Sometimes it's really hard to choose between friendship and the desire of your heart speacially if you know that what ever you choose,your happiness is still at stake.Each of us has different points of view when it comes to this matter.On my part I would say that I already made a decision long ago but until now I can't avoid of thinking what it's like if we are lovers and not only friends?what is our life now?How about you people?if you are in my shoe,what are you going to choose,Friendship..and see how he/she falls inlove with another person? or Romance but once you never succeeded in keeping the flame of your love and you've got separated, you will loose his love and friendship as well? You are free to give your opinion..and share what does your heart desires.
5 responses
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
sometimes, you have to risk the friendship in order to go a step further, in hopes that you may "have" that person that you love. but sometimes also, if things don't turn out the way you want them to, you end up losing that person...and things change. they'll never be the same again. so for me, sometimes, it's better to stay as friends. that way, you may not "have" that person, but you still get to "keep" him/her
• India
25 Feb 07
well, i feel u can fall in luv with our best frnd only coz he/she can understand u well..bt once u fall in luv its difficult to maintain a friendly relation...and in case the other person refuses its even more difficult.... if ur frnd accepts ur luv its well and good otherwise its better nt to br frnds even coz then nthg hurts u more when u see that frnd with sumone else
• Pakistan
23 Jan 07
friendship some times become romance when some friends when they take care so much and they care a lot of each and every little need they become fall in love but evry body will not get this who get they are lucky
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
Essential sadness is to go through life without loving, but it is almost equally sad to go through life and leave without telling those you love that you have loved them. So, take the risk, you never know. Tell her/him before regretting it your whole life with "what ifs"
• Sri Lanka
25 Feb 07
If you know the limit then I think you would know where to draw up the line between frienship and love. I think its very important to know the limit. I am not saying that it is bad to fall in love with a friend, but its always if you end the realationship with your friend then you would definetly loose your friend too.