can new girl friend replace old girl friend's memory?!

well i did not take such issues seriously i had many girls friends in my life who came and gone but that did not effect me any time

The onus of remembering or forgetting a person should be our own decision and responsibility. If we feel that we want to forget one person, then there are many ways of doing so…getting another girlfriend is not the only way. Also it will not be fair to the new girl if you befriend her only to forger your other girlfriend. So I think the best for you would be to remain single as of now…mix with people, try and have a good time, learn something new, keep yourself engaged but don’t go for any relation right now.

For me forget her same as you don't know her so hat you forget your x.

i think the memory can be diminished but not be vanished completely. i think in some cases even you can just put the level of memory of your ex can down. but i think this is not a good idea to make a girl friend for merely forgetting the old one.

I remember the time I and my first boyfriend broke up. The feeling was terrible. I simply had to go my room and cry because if I didn't, I felt like my heart was going to explode or something. Since I knew it was impossible for me and that guy to be together again, I knew I had to move on. I wanted to get over him as soon as I could, so I hid all things that would remind me of him. I kept myself busy and I would listen to happy, upbeat music (instead of dramatic ballads) and forced myself to be happy and optimistic. It was months before I could talk about him to my close friends without shedding a tear. Now I'm about to marry my second boyfriend. I accepted him because I love him, and never because I wanted to forget the previous guy. If you are going to have a new girlfriend, offer her your love because you truly love her, not because you just want to forget someone. Don't worry, it's natural not to forget right away. It takes time, especially if you really loved the person.

whether its of a girlfriend or a boyfriend memories are to be cherished.I was also into relationship for years but one fine day we broke-up.But still we are in touch. Better to avoid it let it be in its own way.Who knows you guys patch-up again & set another discussion in Mylot............lol

I agreed that no one can replace your memories with your ex-girlfriend, because that must be to sweet to forget. You can try get a new relationship but that's not the best solution you can choose. You must try to accept that you have broke up with her, maybe that's the best thing you can do...

hi rowdyrace, Time is what will help you get over your girlfriend and nothing else. If you go into another relationship too quick and while you still have feelings for your ex then it may help you get your ex off of your mind for a while but your feelings will still be there and it would not be fair to the new girl. These rebound relationships don't usually work. I'd say that you should give yourself some more time to heal from the breakup before jumping back into things.

I think it is wrong that new girlfriend replace your old girlfriends memory.. i think it is only compromise with your memory.. because first love never forget.. and their memories always stay in minds.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..

A new girlfriend cannot replace the memories of an ex. She'll just create fresh new memories for you that could be greater than the old memories.

I don't think so because no can one can take the place of anyone we only try to remove bad memories, we can't say that I totally forget that person.

Indeed, memories can not be replaced. Your friend can say you should get into a different relationship, but that is impossible to do by force. There is a risk that the new person and you wouldn't fit either. If it breaks up after that, THAN it will be a big mess. If I were you I'd wait a little longer, you'll know when the time is right to begin a new relationship. Good luck further

i think their should be proper break up between the two of you, if it turns out that you still want each other then why follow the advice of your friend, you only end up using your present to cover up the padt which will later on frustrate you in life. If you really cant work it out together anymore, then start dating. If new ones could replace the memories of old ones, then why do some people at some point in their lives, want to go back to their past lover? I believe, the past ones always impart within us memories, whether good or bad. The past and the present, got their own stories to tell, so I dont think so they could be replaced.We, humans dont forget people who have touched our lives once in awhile.

ya thats true that i have a new girlfriend...bt i don,t thing so that new girlfriend can wash up the memory of the old girlfriend..bcoz no one can forget his first love..though there is some exception..