What is it that attracts you the most?
By setsuna26
@setsuna26 (2751)
Philippines
April 5, 2010 2:29pm CST
When we are walking in the street and then all of a sudden this flashy guy/girl just passed by by some reason we just cant help it but to look at him/her and tell ourselves wow hes/shes gorgeous.Im just curious what is it that attracts you the most? is it the looks alone? maybe the way he/she talks? his /her body language? or maybe his/her kindness? so what is your criteria in saying that someone is hot ?
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@werty009 (404)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
for me the girl that gotta get my attention is a girl that is not flashy but her look is striking maybe a simple beautiful girl who likes to smile i don't use standard for attractions,i guess for me a girl's body language is simple yet striking along with a beautiful smile is what attracts me the most simple striking haha
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@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
If i see someone with those qualities then i might as well be interested , simple yet striking. I like that too, i just wish we will be able to find these kinds of girls all the time lol . Hey im grateful to have your thoughts and ideas once more ,keep them coming brother and i appreciate your effort 
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Thank you for sharing all these information with me. Mylot is really a good place to share and explore lots of cool and exciting thoughts most of the time. Hope to hear more from you . Thank you
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
7 Apr 10
If I was referring to someone as 'hot', it wouldn't necessarily involve their personality or kindness. Mainly because I would just be referring to their looks. A nice face is really important. Plus, I like for a guy to be a bit muscular but not so much that he looks like his veins are popping out. A nice thick neck is helpful along with broad shoulders. And most importantly, they have to have a good haircut. I do not like it when men buzz their hair too short, just so that they don't have to take care of it. This really can ruin a good looking person. If only they knew, or perhaps they do, and they just don't care. LOL
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@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Cool choice huh! Good thing im not that too buffed and that i just have this decent haircut i will always keep in mind those preference of yours, who knows the next lady that i will come across will be looking for the same characteristics too lol .Thank you for sharing your time and effort with my topic and i hope to see more of your work pretty soon too 
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
6 Apr 10
Hi Setsuna! I am illqualified to answer this because I am middleaged and even if I walk down memory lane I have nothing much to say since I was a product of a conditioned upbringing.However, I would still feel that while looks would be the first thing it is also the manner in which one conducts oneself that makes an impression on people.Kindness comes later."Hot"-I cannot say because I can never think nor could have thought on those lines.Normally I won't give a second look to anyone because I would be very preoccupied with whatever I am doing.But , despite this if something attracts me it would be the dress the person is wearing and his/her nose and features[in this order respectively].
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@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Cool, i fully understand what you mean, even if we are all guys yes you are right we all have different kinds and ways of appreciating women or girls around us.There are times that i myself is attracted to someone whose pretty good when it comes to handling her dress or the way she walks and her physical features such as nose too. Thank you for sharing your time again my good friend, have a great day! 
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
6 Apr 10
In first impression I like tall men with athletic body with great smiles. What I like most is smart mind with great sense humor. Good lucking man but really hard to talk to and make situation really bored will make turn off. How about you what really make you turn on?.
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@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
I will have to agree with your definition, i mean even if you have a handsome man with you if he dont know how to handle a good conversation then the lady will be bored specially if we are talking to intelligent ladies just like you .Looks is not everything, yes we are amazed with good looks and good body structure but it wont last long, what matters is that this person will be able to sustain a good conversation and will be able to please you not just your eyes. Someone sensible to talk to and knows how to exchange ideas and worth talking to, thats one of the turn ons that i like in a girl .Thank you for sharing your time and thoughts nangisha hope to see more of your ideas pretty soon my friend 
.Looks is not everything, yes we are amazed with good looks and good body structure but it wont last long, what matters is that this person will be able to sustain a good conversation and will be able to please you not just your eyes. Someone sensible to talk to and knows how to exchange ideas and worth talking to, thats one of the turn ons that i like in a girl .Thank you for sharing your time and thoughts nangisha hope to see more of your ideas pretty soon my friend 
@shenlynn7823 (641)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Hello dear friend Setsuna,We usually can't help it sometimes but admire someone be it a guy or a girl who is a total stranger to us...and there is something that attracts us to them..Well dear friend,i get attracted first to a person's eyes,i believe that through a person's eyes you can mirror his personality & the character he possessed & another thing,i usually look at the shoes,i really don't know why,maybe because i love shoes,funny isn't it..anyways have a great day friend!
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Yeah thank you for reminding me i really like the eyes as well. It says alot bout the person and her personality. And sometimes just looking to her eyes tells me alot about her already. I just cant get enough receiving lots of ideas coming from you guys thank you very much and have a great day!
@tiguer23000 (93)
• France
6 Apr 10
From my point of view this is not the things that make me attracted to a girl and education focuses on ethics, which make the first things I'm surprised and make me attracted to a certain girl, formulation, because in the future will keep you and wishes for many is like sober. I wish everyone happiness of marriage.
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@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Hello tiguer23000,
I think it differs with everybody's choice, like for you those are the stuff that your looking for, some of our friends likes naughty ones , some likes those professional looking girls.Whatever it is that we are looking for , as long as we are happy and satisfied thats what really matters. Enjoy mylotting my friend
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
5 Apr 10
tHERE'S NOT TOO MANY OLD MEN THAT LOOK HOT TO ME, LOL. That's all a thing in the past when u get to my age. 
. I do have some good memories tho.
. I do have some good memories tho.@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Hahaha i get the feeling ma'am. I bet when your young men go crazy over you. And that your like the talk of the town.Its just like when a celebrity is crossing the street. Its always fun to remember those funny things in the past.Thanks for dropping by and may you have a fruitful day ahead of you
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
A girl wearing an office attire with a mini skirt always gets my eyes. I'm also attracted to those girls who wears glasses with a sexy body. I also like those that flaunt their cleavage.
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@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Whoah! is it just me or is it really hot in here lol .Hands down man! you just said it all if you see someone like what you just said, unless theres something wrong with you well you will definitely crave for more lol 
thanks for posting man! have a great day!
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
6 Apr 10
hello
i am matured now, know what is what, more over i have not seen flashy stuff in our streets, only in tv serrials some times... i don't watch tv too
Thanks for this nice post, cheers
God bless you.
Prof
God bless you.
Prof
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@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
I understand sir and i do believe that your way of thinking is really mature compare to younger guys. I dont mean it in a wrong way, what i mean is your wisdom when it comes to this matter is much more than that of ours.I just want to know sir like 20 years ago what is it that your looking for in a girl? Like the typical looks of a girl that makes you want to be with her? Thank you for sharing your time with us and participating
@bagputza (504)
• Belgium
5 Apr 10
Good evening dear friend setsuna26 , thank you for this verry cool question ...well for the moment i am not single anymore but i cann still respon to your question without getting myself in trouble , hence what i love in a Women that atracts me phisically are they thiy's , Blonde hair and the rest must come from inside , loyal , trustfull , hardworking and someone that has life and cann make me smile and motivate me in every morning , so in an case my LOVE reads this discussion ...SHE SHOULD KNOW .... THAT AM TALKING ABOUT HER :)
Have a nice evening Setsuna26
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@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Cool answer indeed and i have to say your pretty lucky that you found someone like her.Congratulations and may you have a wonderful relationship together. Thank you for participating as well, im just so curious bout these kinds of stuff and you people are making me feel so good with good answers as well
@KANdaNGTips (97)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 10
Zit. In my face a lot of acne. Although this is not a good thing. But with this, I became invisible.
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
But what about with girls? what is it that you like seeing the most? like when you see a girl what is it that your looking for? something that attracts you to them? im pretty sure theres some qualities that you like too.
@Nikhil1418 (38)
• Qatar
6 Apr 10
The way they walks, talks and if they r beautiful... i love him/her, and the way u talks its nice.
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Yeah sometimes when i see girls walking sexy i just cant help it but to stare at them too. How i wish theres going to be alot of them with me right now. Lol hey thanks for sharing your thoughts and ideas with me.
