boyfriend's trust
@angelgirl_JNM (64)
Canada
April 5, 2010 6:37pm CST
ok so when u have a long distance relationship wit someone how do u get to have their trust? .. my bf say's he trust me but gets jealous for everything. I know he loves me but how do u know when he really does trust u??
5 responses
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Maybe he is just getting insecure of those guys going after you. You just need to keep on reassuring him that he doesn't have to worry because you love him so much and he is your only one. Aside from that you can also avoid or minimize interacting to those guys he was jealous of. Happy myLotting! 
@angelgirl_JNM (64)
• Canada
6 Apr 10
yea thats exactly wat it is lol ..He knows bout other guys I used to talk to and I told him he didnt have to worry and all but I still think he does and I can't reassure him anymore. its hard.. but thanks for responding :)
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
If he is still keep on having doubts, then ask him if he trust you, and ask him if he think that you are that kind of girl who is flirt and easily going out with guys. Tell him that if he cannot trust you, then your relationship will never last. Trust is very important in a relationship. So tell him, "please don't worry ok, i will never get away from you by anyone, coz you are the only one in my heart, but if you will keep on doubting me and keep on getting jealous, and if you cannot trust me, it will hurt me so much and i might think that you don't love me coz you cannot trust me" Haha! Well, something like that. Have a nice day!
@jfier001 (14)
• United States
6 Apr 10
In any long distance relationship the communication has to be open. Try talking to your boyfriend about how you feel, but be careful to not blame him for anything. Use words such as "I feel" and try to avoid you language ( such as "you always.. or you never...). Being able to trust your partner is important in any relationship, not just long distance.
@angelgirl_JNM (64)
• Canada
6 Apr 10
thanks.. talkin bout feelings is not something i tend to do but once its started to that we talk about it all night. Ill try that :)
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
my husband is also a jealous person, but i tried to understand him because i know being away from each other is really a difficult thing especially that we just got married. what i do is i always keep our line of communication open. though, most of the time, he don't have a signal on his celphone because he is a seaman and spend almost all of their time at sea, traveling from one place to another, i still told him that i will be texting him everyday to tell him that i love and miss him, and i really keep that promise. so that sometimes, when they got signal, he could still receive my texts, and he trust me for that. whenever they stay at one place and they have signal, i tell him things that i do, and keep him updated of my whereabouts. by this, he felt at ease, knowing that i deserve his trust.
@minotaur87 (769)
• Singapore
7 Apr 10
True love is not a possessive kind of love. If there's too much jealousy involved, that means the person may be too possessive, then this kind of relationship is not really healthy. It's all right to be jealous once in a while to show that he do care about you, but anything excess is not going to be good. Long distance relationship is difficult to maintain but those who persevere till the end together will still end up becoming a couple.
