I wish I had a YOUNGER BROTHER
By gambamarcela
@gambamarcela (1011)
Philippines
April 6, 2010 1:26am CST
I watched a photo album of a new friend of mine on facebook. While I was looking onto some photos, I noticed one photo that stimulated my inner desires.LOL.It was a picture of my friend (which happens to be my crush.hehe) and his cute little sister. They were on the shore laughing at each other.
The photo made me think of something that I wanted to have. When I was younger, I was envied by my friends for being the youngest in the family. That's why I became a spoiled brat. But, when I grew older, my perception has changed. I then started to long for a younger brother for me to shower him my love and attention. I wanted to have a brother that I can care and somehow be his legal counsel.LOL. sigh. My parents are already old. They can't bear a child anymore.
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14 responses
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
6 Apr 10
Dear friend,
I hope you could find a good person as a brother, may be I do have a sister now. If you permit I would consider you also one of my other sister.Further I wish you all the best to find a good brother exactly as you wished.
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Oh it would be my pleasure to be your sister. Thanks for considering me shamrack.
Happy mylotting!
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@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
LOL. We're not really good friends. He doesn't even know me.hehe. I just sent him a friend request because he's my idol on youtube. He is has a very nice voice. hehe. Anyway, I can't treat him as a brother. I'm looking forward to be his lover.ooops
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
hello gambamarcela,
i am the first born in the family and i have one brother who's 10 years younger than me! its really a great feeling to have a sibling to whom we can share our joys. having my younger brother is such a joy in the family and he's always our baby!
right now, i am living far from them that's why i am missing them (my parents & my only brother). whenever i go home, i do spend some time with him and even if he's a guy i am glad that he do share things about him like about his love life...hehe
and as a big sister, i am also kinda protective towards him and i also like to provide him any help that i can give...
i am here for him not only to give some financial supports for his studies but most specially i am here to give him moral support and help him pursue his dreams...
on your part, maybe if you have nephews, you can treat them like your younger brother of even some of your younger cousins if there's any...
on the other hand, since i don't have an older brother/sister...i wish to have one!
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
yeah, my brother is so sweet bu naughty as well...hehe sometimes he also irritates me...coz he's annoying in some of his acts but annoying in a sweet way.
yeah its a good feeling to be a big sister...
i like the feeling of being the loved, trusted by my brother.
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
That is so sweet having a younger brother who shares his love stories to his elder sister. That is what I wanted to have; a younger brother who is sweet.wheh. You so love him. Anyway, I have a nephew but he's still one-year old.hehe. I'm treating my six-year old niece just like my younger sister.I'm close to her. And I really love the feeling of being a big sister to her.
@maanrodriguez (604)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
I am an only child and obviously have not experienced what having a sibling is like. but back then I used to say I would love to have an older brother, someone who can protect me from the guys, hahaha. silly, i know.
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
It must be lonely at home, eh? An older brother is cool. My brother protects me from my parents' sermons about work. He is the only one who takes my side and defends me. My other sisters and brother take my parents' side.hehe
@langjipingzong (981)
• China
6 Apr 10
Hi,there.I am the youngest girl in my family and I have two older sisters.But I never wish I have a younger sister or brother cause I do enjoy love and care from my sisters.I am not so good at care for others .But I always wish that I could have a older brother so that there is nobody can bully me.While if he is very handsome,I can be pround to say "My brother is the most handsome in the world.I do like this feeling.
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@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
I have an older brother langjupingzong. And I love him. He is always worried and concerned about me. He's my superhero. Despite having an older brother, I also want to know how it feels to have a younger brother. I will be toying him when he starts to crush on someone.LOL.
@Edwardgogogo (22)
• China
8 Apr 10
Hi,gambamarcela!I still remember you.How are you recently?
After knowing that you want to have a younger brother with such a strong desire,i start to realise that how fortunate i am.I have a young brother who is 2 years younger than me.We grew up together.We play the same computer,play the same basketball and study at the same school which is a meaningful memory of my childhood.There is no doubt that we had a close brotherhood.It it after reading your words that i just realise that this was a very precious relationship which a lot of people envy.I will take more time to care and look after my brother to express my deep affection to him.Thank you for reminding me!
Have a nice day!
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
Which discussion do you remember me edward? LOL. Anyway, you are always welcome edward. Send my regards to your brother. Love him always.
Happy mylotting!
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
Well I applied in a call center. I am still waiting for a go-signal for our workshop.hehe.I had a high rate in the written exam but I did not do well in the final interview.I'm always terrible at interviews. The Human resource officer has given me another chance since I have the potential.So, I'll be taking a workshop first. From there, I would be observed. if I will do well,then I can proceed to their training. Wish me luck..hehe
@Edwardgogogo (22)
• China
10 Apr 10
You was worried about your job.I just want to know how is it going on?
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
11 Apr 10
i'm the eldest, i've got one brother he's 5.5 yrs younger than me. we get along when we have to, and had some good times together. i am proud of what he has acheived, he'll be 24 this yr and already has a good list of truck driving licences along with experience as well.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
11 Apr 10
won't be 29 till near the end of the month, but one of the funnier memories i have with my bro. we could fight like cat and dog at times but get over it. there was one time we both rode the horse, i had the hat on and he didn't. he accidently kicked her in the wrong spot and we both got bucked off, he ended with a concussion. then another time i got him out when we were playing cricket and he threw the bat at me hitting me. i was not happy about it cause it hurt where he got me.
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
so you're 29 then?hehe. You must have had good childhood memories then. Can you share some of them?
Happy mylotting!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Apr 10
hi gambamarcela sorry you cannot have that younger brother but
maybe you can sort of guide or like some of your friends younger
brothers oh it will not be the same of course, but you can care'
for other people. I can remember wanting to have another younger'sister besides the one I had but like your situation my mom was too old to have any more children.
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Yeah. I have this one friend who was my classmate in college. He is one year younger than me and I treat him like my little brother. But, sometimes I treat him as a cruch.LOL. Maybe I'll just wait for my one-year old nepwhew to grow up.hehe
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
I am the youngest child and I am in the same shoes as yours. I like to have a younger brother or younger sister perhaps. That would be really cool because I will also enjoy making fun of them...joke. No i think i will be a good brother to them. But unfortunately my mother already passed away last January and my father is already 87 years old.
Too late for that but anyways if i get married one day then I can have my own child to take care and provide for. Yes I do have nieces and nephews that I like playing with.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
6 Apr 10
Do they have a Big brothers Big sisters program where you are? Maybe you can do something like that.
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
I'm not so familiar with some programs in our place. But, I don't think thre's such. But, I have another option. How about in some orphanage where I can volunteer as a tutor maybe.LOL.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
11 Apr 10
I am fortunate to have an older brother and a younger brother. I even have an older sister. I love all three. My older brother gives me advice on computers and fixes my computer when it needs it. My younger brother was spoiled and for years I never appreciate my brother for that. I don't feel jealous of that anymore but it took years to get over! My younger brother is 20 months younger and is good at car repairs and car maintance. If he is able to do it,I'll have him do it! My older brother is 10 years older. Sister is 4 years older. I'm not really close to any of my siblings but we do get along very well. I sometimes feel I am the youngest children! I'm not but having two brothers and a sister is a good thing!
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
Yeah youngest children are spoiled brats. I belong to that class.LOL. Well, you are such a lucky son for you are in the middle. You can run to your older siblings for some wise help and then be accountable to your younger brother for his actions.
@sachii315 (488)
• Japan
7 Apr 10
Hi gambamarcela! I'm very lucky to have 2 noisy and annoying younger brothers and a very handsome older brother. haha. I am the only girl among my siblings which make me want to have a younger sister before. My dad too wanted to have another daughter but it turned out to be 2 males. Now my mom can't bear a child anymore because of her age. A younger brother would be nice but very tiresome to tend to.. hahaha.. Happy mylotting!
@sachii315 (488)
• Japan
9 Apr 10
Yes they really are annoying but they are fun to be with. We had sibling rivalries and we also got into fights when we were younger. They aren't twins and they are kinda mature right now. My older brother Aoki is 29, Rei is 20, and Hiro is 17. Yeah it was hard when I started dating boys, they always had something to say, mostly annoying comments. Haha Have a nice day!
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
LOL. They are annoying? But, I'm sure they're cute. hehe. Are they twins? How old are they? You know what, you're very lucky since you're the only girl amongst your siblings. Good thing you're not the youngest. It would be hard for you to get a boyfriend. LOL. They will keep an eye on your love life.hehe.
Happy my lotting!
@danverxxcore (347)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Maybe you could love your cousins or any of your relatives :D We can't force our parents to make us another one but surely there is something God wants us to take care of and be taken care of. :D
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
LOL. I keep on joking my parents that they make me a younger brother. And they would just tell me,"you make your own." haha. They're so funny. I'm not close with my cousins because of some conflicts with my aunts and uncles.hehe. Well, I have a one-year old nephew. Someday, when he grows older, I'll be treating him as my younger brother. For now, my niece is the one I'm treating as my younger sister. I love the feeling.I feel like a big sister.wheeh.
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Oh, my married sister had a vacation at our house last holy week. She brought her 3 children with her. Her husband did not come along since he still needs to go to work. So, she was all alone baby-sitting the three. It was such a big responsibility being a mom especially when the children are still toddlers. Her two children are quite hard to manage since. It's a tedious job being a mom. LOL. I'm not ready yet.
@danverxxcore (347)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
That's good! :D But sad, about conflicts with the aunts. Soon you'll make your own younger better but with more responsibility. Maybe you'll like it or maybe not.
@dpickett321 (45)
• United States
7 Apr 10
I must admit having a brother sounds all good and stuff but just think you would have to share your things and time with parents with him so there a pros but there are also cons.
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
Oh, I'm a girl so I don't think there's a problem sharing stuffs.hehe. When it comes to attention, hmmm I won't get upset with it since I already had experienced being showered with great attention and love. It would be his turn to get all the attention. I would surely give him mine.
Happy mylotting!