Being a Mom

I am mother as well and I am also working. The difference is that at least you have nights to spend with your kids. Me I need to leave home early morning which is he is still sleep. And once I'll be back in the home its already late so meaning he is already sleep. I could only see my son every weekend. For us working mom we just have to spend quality time instead of quantity time.

i was once in your position till i took fate's cue and left my job. one cannot have the best of everything so one has to choose. confusion in choosing is but natural. i also think that now is the time to consider and stay true to your longing to be there for the children. another little one, if ever you still plan on adding to your family, is another soul left behind in the house without a mom most of the time. peace .

Hi, laurenban. I am a stay at home mom, and sometimes i think i have not much time spent with my son as well. As i need to cook and do the chores. I tried my best to do the chores and cook whenever he sleeps and this gives me more time to be with my son. When i am together with my son, i play with him, i teach him, i sing to him. And during the evening, we will bring my son for a walk and play at the playground. I think being a working mom is quite difficult when comes to spending more time with the kids. I know after working, when the mom comes back home, it's already getting dark. And night time is the only time to be with the children. It's quite exhausting if you need to cook the dinner somemore after the work. I think it's better to order the food from carter service, and using the night time to be with the kids. I think it's ok if you spend your time with your kids during the nights and the weekends. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.

I know what are you talking about. It's not easy to combine work and being a mom. When I go home in the evening I catch myself that I'm tired and in a hurry to make some things at home and couldn't pay enough attention to my son. So usually I do only the things that can't wait and try to spend maximum time with him. I started to don't care if there is a mess or not-I pay attention at this during the weekend. I just can't do everything at once.

I am a soon-to-be mother and I already have concerns about this same issue because I will have to go back to work 8 weeks after giving birth. If we could financially afford it I think I would take about 6 months off to bond with baby. But I think that a lot of other mother's are in your shoes and the only advice I can give is to make the most of your time with your son. When you are with him, don't let the stress and worry or work and everyday life bring you down, instead focus on him and things you can do to build your relationship. That way, when you aren't there, your son will still feel a strong connection to you.

Becoming a mother is by far the best experience I've ever had and there will always be times when you're worrying if you're spending enough time with him or giving him what he deserves. The important thing is to do the best you can. Lots of moms don't have the luxury of being able to stay at home and bond/take care of their kids, which is unfortunate, but it's also important that there are still women in the workforce. I am blessed to have the opportunity to work from home. I'm here when my son goes to sleep, wakes up to eat and play, and everything in between.

Yes,Being a Mom is always caring to her children safety. It's good to bond other mom on what are they experience.