How can someone know that he/she fell or raise in love?

@vine88 (1031)
India
April 6, 2010 7:09am CST
First girl and a boy are friends..when friendship will go long..it will turn into good friend or a best friend of each other. And in this time...people fell in love...now it;s time to purpose...both are in tense...whether he loves or not.. whether she loves me or now...how can some one know.. how can a boy knows that he is in love with that girl , and how can a girl knows she is in love with that guy... who should purpose? Or how can someone show their love to partner...love love...really hard thing...
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@sumanadep (1228)
• India
6 Apr 10
A very difficult question for those who are not in love or have not been through it. I am waiting for my experience. may be after that I will be able to answer this.
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@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thank you.
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• United States
6 Apr 10
If it is true love, you will know. There will be no question about it.
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@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thank you.
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
6 Apr 10
Marriage Proposal is an easy thing now days... Just turn on the youtube and search for marriage proposals and you will get more videos on proposing... Follow some of the methods which suits your partner best and thereby she will accept for the marriage..
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@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thanks, guna... for your answer.
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@vandana7 (100282)
• India
6 Apr 10
Hi vine, here is an answer you wont really like, but I will tell you anyway. :) Nature starts creating some special chemicals in our bodies at the right age. Now this when it comes into contact with other compatible chemical emanating from another person would lead to us noticing the person, and thereafter it is the eyes that start taking notes. May be ears and nose too. :) Whatever is recorded and fed to brain - the brain says yes or no - at times money may play a crucial role in the brain's judgment, or earning potential. At times this is prompted as a way to get something cool that one of our friends or enemies has. That bad. But for brain to process it all, there should be time! We make time for this type of thinking when we have nothing to do but twiddle our thumbs, or when we have such heavy workload that we just want to escape it all!
@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thank you.
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• India
6 Apr 10
How boy would know he truly loves the girl and how the girl would know she truly loves the boy? A simple thing would tell them whether they truly love each other or not. If both find they cannot live without each other then they are in love. If the one loves, the other though he or she does not love is the true love. To let someone know that you love that person, he or she need not tell him by the word of the mouth. The things you do for the person shows whether the person really loves or not.
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@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thank you.
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• Philippines
6 Apr 10
i think someone fall in love if he/she don't want to be separated with his/her love or he/she always want to go with the person he/she loves, and he easily get jealous when the one he/she love is with somebody even if that somebody is not in relationship with the person he/she love
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@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thank you.
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• Philippines
19 Apr 10
You know when you are falling in love by these signs. You are seeing this person on every body’s face. When you wake up in the morning you have a smile in your face and he or she is the first person you think about. You pray at night that you will have a happy moments as the day goes by. Even if that person is far, when you see him or her, you know it is him or her. When someone is calling his or her name, even if that is not them you are happy inside. You can eat. Even if you are reading or doing something your thoughts are flying and you always think of him and her. That is the sign that you are falling in love. This days it really depends who will want to propose the feelings. It mostly done by guys rather than girls. They can only show their love when they are involved in a relationship already. But there are some even without relationship they show their love to a certain person. For them they don’t really care if that person will return his or her love for them, what matters on them they are happy being in love.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Apr 10
hi vine oh you will know, nobody will need tell you, you get tense, you get excited, you think of the other person all the time, you want to be with him or her, you are attracted physically and mentally. believe you will know, you will lose your appetite you will want to laugh and sing all the time, oh you will know believe me you will know.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Apr 10
vine I married the man I loved for the first time and last time for 33 years.I am a woman, I know the hatley sounds male but its Mrs. hatley. I have finally put my gender down in my profile as so many thought I was a guy but nope female , very much female, a girly girl.elderly now of course.
@vandana7 (100282)
• India
6 Apr 10
I think the physical and mental attraction are the most important. Rest of the symptoms can be of other diseases as well, isn't it? :)
@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Ya, Hatley, you are right...in love people sing , laugh, dance, they even forget their hunger...any way at your time you really loved your girl...you are really in true love... did you marry the girl whom you loved for the first time?
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@piya84 (2581)
• India
6 Apr 10
Ohh thanks to system here.I dont know how it work outside india or asia.In Asian countries generally its men who are suppose to propose.Women propose too but they are still less in number. About love i think if both parties are in love or if there is mutual attraction its very easy to know.There are some thing like we feel very happy around the person to whom we love.We love to talk with them and we appreciate their small small things.We like their attention.From these things i think one can guess other persons opinion before proposing them.
@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thank you.
• United States
6 Apr 10
When two people realize that they are in love the time will come around and they will both figure it out good things like love take time as well as others but trust me you will know when it is Love.
• United States
10 Apr 10
You are very welcome and have a nice day!!
@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thank You.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
In my point of view I'm in love with the person If I see to him almost all what I like to be my lover. Like for instance first of all what I look first to a man is the one who don't smoke. Second, he is loveable, very good attitude not drunkard and just to anyone. I'm in love so much to a man who really cares for me of how are things with me and care all about with me so w/ my parents as well.Third, he is so calm and not harsh in some instances that it occurs when you met some misunder- standing of ideas and thoughts.Low pride and humble too. It can make me in love if all what I wish is there w/ him I see. And I will reply it with the same and loves grow with it. Now that I am talking about this I'm in love again hahahahah.
@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thank you very much.
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
6 Apr 10
Well love relationships tend to be complicated as we know them. I think it boils down to just being honest, trustful and communicative. If you them three factors then you have a good relationship. Its about staying together and not about worrying only of self but both, caring and helping provide.
• United States
7 Apr 10
you are welcome :) I hope it helped you.
@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thank you.
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Is this your love story? Kinda sweet and romantic. Your telling everybody about your love story right? There's a saying that goes love at first sight, there's a situation that dating a longer time will surely make you aware if both couple (man & woman) really love each other. Because of these reasons you'll know if you really love the girl or vice versa if the girl really loves you. That's why a long engagement is more appropriate than love at first sight.
@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
may be you are right...thanks for your answer.
@ipoemea (52)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
a guy or a girl will know that he?she is in love if he/she always think of that someone. if she/he takes effort in knowing her/him, trying to know her/his personality. Most of all, if she/he is thinking of her/his happiness first..or making the other person her..giving her/his time.
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
making the other person her/his priority..thats what i mean..
@vine88 (1031)
• India
7 Apr 10
Thank you.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
7 Apr 10
Love is a strange and beautiful thing. To the outside world it is hard to know what two people share. Love is wonderous and exciting, when one is in love they just know it. They may be apprehensive as to whether the other one loves them or not but most of the time there are signs to tell that two people are in love.
@airakumar (1553)
• India
7 Apr 10
I think when you are in love, you feel very strongly for another person and want to know if what you're feeling is the real deal. If you feel like this then ask yourself what it means to you if you believe you're in love. Don't put pressure on yourself to define what you're feeling as love. And don't let anyone else pressure you either. If you're not sure of the answer right now. Give it some time and ask yourself these questions a few months or a year down the road. You might be surprised to see how your feelings change..
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
7 Apr 10
I think it is very easy to know that persons are fell in love... when he/she always think about someone specials.. and don't sleep at night and think about her/him... then i feel that person are in love... have a nice day and keep mylotting always..
@kaylachan (69671)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
8 Apr 10
Love is only as hard as you make it out to be. It can be easy or it can be hard. Most people try to rationalize love a task which is not posssible. Those who rationalize love tend to be in some real trouble. Because, love as an emotion not meant to be completely understood and those who try are in for a world of hurt.