Pain decreases love.Do you think this is true?

Sweetie, love really hurts, that i can promise you. The more you hurt, the more you love that person. Sometimes it makes you really sick. But, as we are human, we need all that love gives, whether pain or happiness. No matter, we take it all. TATA.

Yes, love is unconditional so do you think that even if how much you are hurting, you will be more than willing to accept and endure it because you will make the relationship stronger. It is by hurting that you love the person even more and learn to take some more risks. On the other hand it really depends how you take the pain. But in my case, we've been through a lot and it feels so much better after all the hurting, we're still together and we are so in love with each other. Loving doesn't mean that you have to expect something in return if you truly believe that love is unconditional. So bottom line is that, it should not be a reason to decrease the love and what you and your partner has established.

Hello dragonangel, I wish love was unconditional but I found most of the love I met there is conditions. I did my best in last relationship to be unconditional but got my hear broken the hard way. I learned my lesson. Haveing a child behind someone back by invetro to younger women by 20 years is not being unconditional to the other partner. This person said he saw us together forever... yea right. I know better now. I have lost a lot of trust in the male species over this. He is in the Army. If you can beelive someone in the Army who can you trust... (my opinions only) I know there are many women out there in love with someone in the service... I am happy for them but I seen the dark side of that family (bonding) band of brothers etc... Thanks and have a Great day Sincerely Unique16

Yes, the pain does decrease love, but only after several days when we start thinking logically. I mean the vary moment of getting hurt can leave us in a state of shock. During this period we might just be in a state of denial that something hurtful has come from the person we hold so close to our hearts. This is the time when we tend to ask ourselves if this is the reality or just a horrible nightmare. But once this time has passed the love in us decreases along with the respect for the partner. This is how I experienced things in the past. I saw that even my friend went through this. So I will say this happens in most cases to people. However, it is also true that love can be decreased from too much satisfaction in a relationship. I mean yes it is always recommended that we need to cherish the one who loves us. But in reality, the opposite happens. This love is taken for granted and the person is treated harshly. Too much love coming from the partner makes a person believe that he or she is still missing something. Perhaps, that is why some people break up.

For me, pain either strengthens love or weakens it. Love strengthen when the person learns to endure and persevere despite of the pain; on the other hand, it weakens when the person grows tired and gives up because of the pain.

I don't think so because Love is a sweet pain. Pains and Hurtings make love Strong after they compramise with each other. They always result in increasing the Love but not decreasing the love.

Yeah, i think so. It kinda repels the person giving the loving if he/she is being hurt by that person whom he/she loves. I think it really decreases the intensity of loving someone if that person is being hurt by the one he/she loves.