Do guys know how to express themselves?
@iana011michelle (42)
Philippines
April 7, 2010 9:29am CST
They say that girls are complicated and hard to understand. Isn't it guys are the same as well? They say they love you but they don't show it to you. They do stupid things that hurts their partner but still say that they will make up for it and then do the same stupid act. Is that love? When you try to ask them to clear of things, it seems like they have the same answers. I've talked with my friends with these kind of situations and then most same questions have the same answers from different guys. Are they that unreal? Or they just can't show how they really feel? They say they love you but hurts you all over again.
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@phyrre (2317)
• United States
7 Apr 10
I think it depends on the person. I know that my husband has problems sharing his feelings and opening up because that's not how he was raised. His parents always argued and they were very physical in their arguments and so that's what he saw when he was growing up. They never really shared anything without yelling at each other or arguing and he doesn't want us to ever argue or anything, so he just doesn't share his feelings because he thinks it'll be easier, even though time and time again that's what ends up causing the arguments.
On the other hand, though, girls can do all the things you listed above. It's not just one gender in particular. Guys tend to be more stereotyped to do that, but that doesn't mean that all guys are like that and it doesn't mean that girls won't be like that, too.
