I Hate You!!!

ive said this to people that i love and it totally hurt them. i felt really bad about it and went back to say sorry to them. i can remember when i first got bipolar i said this to my wife for no reason, no idea why i said it. she knew it was from the bipolar that i said it. i did tell her i hated everyone and hated her more..

Hi amaine, If i happen to say those words, it is going to come out pretty strong from my mouth .. I would stop, reconsider myself once or maybe more, no matter how angry i get i just can't say i hate you.! That would be so hurting, after all the love i showed i just can't be so mean to them unless their is something really really very big that has happened, it is hard for me to say that, i just can't.! i won't..

In my younger years I did find myself saying that to someone but it only took once to realize that hey! that's not really me. To utter those words is really harsh, indeed. Words are very powerful. The word hate alone can have some serious repercussions and is most negative. I choose not to entertain the language much less think the thoughts. Sure there are some people that I dislike or choose not to befriend, there are foods and activities that I also dislike but rarely do I use that descriptive word "hate". I find it way too harsh. Even hearing it pierces my heart.

I havent, but my teenage son said this to me once. It hurt me very deeply. I knew he was just upset and didn't truly mean it. He did tell me he was sorry and we talked about it. I told him he couldn't go around saying mean things that he didnt mean. You can say a million good things and people always remember the one mean thing you said. Now he waits until he has cooled down to speak. lesson learned.

Hi amaine, I do not think that I ever say this words to anybody before but I think I have heard it from someone. I can remember the reason she said that to me but I am sure I did something wrong to her. She is my ex-girlfriend actually. I think those words usually uttered by women. When their boyfriend or husband did something wrong and upsetting them, this words usually come from their mouth. Even though it is hard to accept it, but usually they did not mean it. They will come back to their men when everything is cooled down.

Well, for me I never encounter an incidence that I said I hate you, then later on say I'm sorry.

I am older and have learned to hold my tongue. I have said I hate you too many times and more than likely have never been forgiven. Hateful words cut deep and to the bone no less. I chose to be carfull of what I say and to whom and that way I'm always on the safe side. Still there are some people I'd like to see just disappear ! LOL But I'll never tell them this to their faces--- It's a matter of Karma--what goes around comes around. Later and take care.

I said this many times to my husband.. and i meant it!!