the cheater

I think that there are a lot of different reasons people cheat. I think sometimes the ones that once a cheat always a cheat have issues. Whether is be a self confidence issue or what. I cheated once in my life. Well, on one person 3 times. I felt bad a little bit, but for one it was high school. Plus he cheated on me first. So, that was sort of my reason for cheating. I was heart broken. Then towards the end of the relationship I wanted out but I couldn't get out. Every time I tried he talked about killing himself. I think it is hard to stop cheating once you get it in your system. There is a certain thrill to a new relationship. And in doing it on the sly it kind of keeps the thrill going longer. It sometimes is peoples way of forgetting the stress of their relationship. I haven't cheated since I've been married though so I don't fall under the once a cheater always a cheater category and I've been married 9 years. I seem to know more girls that have cheated then been cheated on too. I think the girls just aren't getting enough from one man. Maybe men need to step up there game and be enough for their women lol.

It is a curable decease, no one is cheater by birth, they cheat or rob for fun sake.