Have u been in a pseudo relationship?
By dazzzle89
@dazzzle89 (74)
Philippines
April 7, 2010 8:55pm CST
Pseudo relationship is a kind of situation where two people are more than friends but cannot be considered as lovers.Ive been there before.I can say that isnt a happy situation.Yes theres no responsibility because theres no commitment at all.But its sad that i really dont know who i am in his life.Everything was going fine but time came that he leaves me without giving any reason at all.I got angry at him but i know i really dont have the reason and the right to demand him not to leave because theres no commitment between us
5 responses
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
I have tried this also but it was a treasured experience for me because I learn to realize that everything would work out fine if both were true to themselves. When we decided to part ways, I believe I was the one who cried so much but I have to quit because I wanted somebody whom I can call my own and not someone who'll just be stranger into my life.
@pwang41 (134)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
i've been in a pseudo relationship and it really do sucks. though we love each other we haven't made it official. it is so frustrating because you can't demand. he also left me without a word. i think he had chosen another girl over me. i can't ask for closure, he can't even give me an explanation why he did it.
@phoenyxstarr (132)
• United States
8 Apr 10
Yeah, been there done that, got the t-shirt to prove it. I agree it sucks, but I always try to learn something about myself from each relationship. He taught me that I should never bend my morals for a relationship. If someone can't love me the way I am, then he's not worth my time.
@ypyanyan (956)
• China
8 Apr 10
yes ,it makes people upset .
I am not good at handle this kind of relationship.
my friend said that I was a Emotional idiot.
I suggest you that to be what you want to be .
@caliya (1169)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
I have tried this set up once. it has it's pros and cons. it's good that you don't have to worry about telling your partner what you are doing, who you're with and where you will be going since there is no commitment involved but the sad part is it's pseudo or false relationship so it's not official and you can't demand time or affection from your partner. i don't think i will ever go back to that type of set up again.
