Should Hieght Difference Matter in a Relationship
By elizam
@elizam (75)
April 8, 2010 12:31am CST
When I was still at the University, I dated a man shorter than me for a month. Things did not work out. He was a good man but the height issue must have played the biggest role in ending our relationship. I was always conscious of his height to the extent that when we would be wailking together I would want him to either go on ahead or come after me. My dear, that is the shortest time i have dated a man. Tell me what you think.
4 responses
@tmamtse (33)
• Australia
9 Apr 10
Sometimes it really feels weird, like the guy I am dating with, he is over 6.4 feet but I am only 5 feet. He is just like giant to me and most others too. I don't really like to walk right next to him when we hang out. And also as I am an Asian, it would be more noticeable. But since we have connections in between so it is still alright for us.
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
Hey Elizam...
I think that we are all conscious at first with there partners. We tend to see the things that makes that person really bad looking for us. All of us have been trying to find a very good looking partner or someone who's really okay.
It's natural for you to feel that way but as time goes by when you see the good points of the one you love. You feel his love and how he cares for you. Height and good looks doesn't matter anymore. "Love is blind, It sees but doesn't MIND."
@Saranggola (956)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
For me it does matter because people will always have this idea that a man should be above a woman. This idea then manifests in its literal sense which makes us conclude that a woman should be taller than a woman.