friend or love

I have a friend whom I have for like almost since birth and when he confessed that he wants me to be his girlfriend, I turned him down. Luckily up to now, we're still friends. Actually best friends. After I turned him down, we never talked about it ever again.

A lot of stories like this from movies, from books and even to the tv series. A best example on that one is Dawson's Creek. I know its an old school, but this movie touched my heart about friendship-love. In my case, I have not experience it. But I hope I would not experience it. As its really difficult to choose what way you are going to take. I would like to have him as friend forever, but I could not keep the friendship after a break up in a relationship. All the boyfriends I have before I never ended with them as friend after break up. I could consider them as complete stranger. I am so harsh. I know but I could not be friend after the break up. But I also want to be happy and I dont want to live in life of "what if's" So in this case its really difficult to choose which one.

i would tell him and see how it goes. but let him know if feelings arent mutual id still be friends forever. anyway, i think to love someone truley you really must be best friends first. the other kind dont work so well. take this from someone married 5 times.

Friends occupy a special place in our hearts and it is our friends to whom we can our heart out. At school friendship refers to the sharing of books, toys, food, crayons and other unimportant things of life. As we grow up his relationship of friendship takes a different turn It often happens that our best friends or close riends turn out to be partners of our it is also becomes difficult to decide on the fact that a particular boy/guy is your Friend or Boyfriend..

i got a bestfriend. we've been friends for 9 years now. he fall in love with me . when we are in high school. i declined him. and explain why we should not have a relationship more than friends. i told him that i love him so much that i cant afford to lose him if ever we broke up. so i told him we should stay best friends. that was 8 years ago. now we are still the best of friends.. i love him so much.. i wont worry. coz i know he wont leave me.. coz we are friends..

A very nice topic! Same thing happened to me just with my last relationship. A long friend of mine had court me but I rejected him the very first approach even if I do also have a feelings for him. Know why? It's because I treasure our friendship and can't afford to lose him by that time so I've chose friendship rather than love. But after a long run, I've got no choice, he makes me choose whether to accept him or I'll lose him. How rude the situation is. Since I loved him, I accepted his love. The relationship goes smooth the first time but just after a couple of weeks we've started to fight for some non-sense issues. The situations became complicated that I had to end up our relationship. It's hard but I have to. After our broke-up, so sad to say but we don't even talk to each other. Our friendship had gone to nothing just because of what happened. So, what do you want now? Friendship or love? Always remember that before you enter into something, consider the consequences. Make your relationship worth it!

For my family,for my kid,i will refuse him. Sure, we can be a friend.

If both of you feel the same thing bout each other, like you both want to be with each other then i think its worth the try.And when theres a relationship already then its up to the both of you to make it happen. There are times that friends turned lovers dont make it that long at all, but hey thats just normal nothing to be afraid at all.What i mean is it happens all the time so what you need to do is to be open with one another and make each other feel good with each other all the time. Thanks for sharing your topic and have a great day

Well, for me, this--as hypothetical as it is--would never happen to me. but i'll think on what may happen. the person-friend falls in love with me. I can't accept that. When i say "friend" i mean friend. Heck, acquaintances, affiliates, familiars... Thats what you are. Though we are sentimental and share a lot of commonground i cant have that happenin' ya know? Too much. I'll tell them in the best way I can, that I can only be friends. If they can't accept that, then it we might not be friends anymore. I'd still like to be friends with them, but without strings attached. I'm kinda stoic. Besides, I'm not romantic and i've never been/never will be in love with another person.