Do you think men have to get married before their 30s???

Venezuela
April 8, 2010 10:36pm CST
Well a friend of mine has this idea that he has to get married before he is 30, well some other friends including myself are surprised because we don't share that idea, we think that the women are those who has that idea, but well i don't know what do you think...???
9 responses
@valkerion (1827)
• United Kingdom
9 Apr 10
I do not put an age standard because I dunno with whom I will be at that age...Or if I will be with anyone !
• Venezuela
9 Apr 10
right, and this friend and his girlfriend have just 1 year of relationship, but well .... whatever
@valkerion (1827)
• United Kingdom
9 Apr 10
oh well what can you do? if they wanna do so, let em do so!
@Eppie2010 (509)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
I think men should get married whenever they are ready for marriage, it doesn't matter what age (legal age ^^). Me and my husband were both 26 year old when we got married and we're still together and doing great after almost 15 years! I think emotional maturity and financial stability are way more important than age. ^_^
• Venezuela
9 Apr 10
right the financial stability is really important here
@Galena (9110)
9 Apr 10
there is no upper limit for getting married. some people don't meet the one for a long long time. people should marry when they are in a happy, stable relationship with someone they love and want to marry. whenever that is. one of the sweetest sights I've ever seen was a very very old couple looking in the window of a jewellers at the engagement rings.
• Venezuela
9 Apr 10
well the thing is that they don't have that sparkle but as i said before, whatever :)
@ghieptc (2522)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
I think men have to get married before their 33s because they already got a stable job and matured in their disposition in life. I think women must get married before her 30s because its hard to born a baby.Men can married at any age.
• Venezuela
9 Apr 10
Well you are absolutely right :) but i don't know what is wrong with my friend
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
for me i must prefer to a men marry at the age of 30 and above. for that reason he is capable to go into marriage and responsible to its duties and mature enough to have a family and stand to their own with out depending their parents. for that instances he has already an enough income and savings for the needs of their future children. mostly now a days a men married at a young aged is not ready for their responsibilities as a father of the family., and they are jobless. they are not ready in mental physical and financial status..
• Qatar
11 Apr 10
Well...i think Men should get married at 30 or maximum at 32.
@Leixa003 (867)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
I think your friends idea is about having children while he is still young. By the time he is 60 (retirement age) his children should already finished college. The age gap between him and his children should not be that big so probably that is why he wants to get married before or on his 30's. Well for women it is in the issue of giving birth.
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
The moment you are ready Marriage is not for trial and error,it is just as important as any major surgery. You must be in the know as well as plan and prepare yourself mentally, financially, etc.
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
I think that age does not really matter. What matters is state of maturity and disposition in life. I guess a 20 y/o guy could measure up to a 30 y/o whose maturity level is far below the first one. With ladies, I guess that below 30 is reasonable enough due to child-bearing issues. And I guess maternal instincts start to bud around this age. Cheers.