How Will You feel IF you Girl friend get engaged with your enemy?

@sonusd (1547)
India
April 8, 2010 11:59pm CST
Suppose you hate a person who is nearer to your girl friend and after some day you broke up with your girl friend and you girl friend get engaged with that person then what will be your reaction? Whom will you blame . yourself, your girl friend or that guy? Or leave the matter on the way its pasing
5 responses
@piya84 (2581)
• India
9 Apr 10
After break there is no need to look and see what you ex is doing.Thats what i do.I dont maintain friendship relationship with ex at list when break up was bad. I would move and not look back in such a situation.i would break all contact with him/her after break up.Thats the way to be in peace.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
9 Apr 10
Thanks I was thinking the same but may be feeling jealous and trying to keep her information but that was the pain for me and now I think my pain will get relieve I will enjoy time with my friends
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
If my enemy already got a new start with my ex girlfriend then I will let them be. I already broke up with my ex and there's no way i can be affected at all unless if I still love the girl. But since she already had fallen for my enemy it will surely hurt a little. As what i have said before I will hold no grudge even to my enemy. When I let go of someone there will be no turning back for me. I have to let the memories evaporate and vanished in to thin air because i wanted to start a new beginning. An exciting new life for me and that does not include my enemy and ex.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
9 Apr 10
There is nothing I can do except congratulate my girlfriend. If she has been my girlfriend, likely she would have known who is my enemy. So if she ends up getting engaged to him, there is nothing for me to say. It is her choice. Would I also congratulate my enemy? I think I will have a good laugh.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
I think whether I'll be angry or not, it's no longer my right to intimidate or to condemned anybody because breaking up with a partner mean it's over. I'll just pray for their marriage rather than ruin myself because I regret losing him. Anyways, I know that God has other plans in store for me.
• China
9 Apr 10
So pathetic...but I have been through this kinda thing before. Actually I drank a little and got some sleep.After one or two months,I recovered from the sorrow but got a bad hobby of drinking. My instruction is,don't blame someone in such cases.Things are so subtle in emotion that hardly anyone can take control of that.