How do you handle difficult pople?

@prinkish (104)
Philippines
April 9, 2010 1:29am CST
Sometimes we can encounter difficult people at anytime and anywhere. there are circumstances sometimes that there are people who makes us angry and we feel irritated especially for those who were uneducated person. How can you handle the situation with patient?
5 responses
• United States
9 Apr 10
It can be very frustrating and take a lot of will power to deal with difficult or annoying people. What I do is just keep telling myself in my head to just stay calm and not let this person really get to me because they just are not worth it. I fail a lot and yes they end up really getting under my skin. But just deep breathes, dismissing them, and trying to stay positive is the best strategy for me.
@prinkish (104)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
Wow.. How patient you are, and I personally admire you of being patient in those things. Knowing that patient is really a good choice. Thank you for your options. It's great!!
• India
9 Apr 10
Different people are different not only in their character but also act in their own way. Its good to be with them so that you can learn a lot from them. Every human has their own talents and disers .if its difficult to handle them there are some books which deals with how to handle people around us.
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
Handling that kind of situation with patient is difficult. It takes a lot of self-preservation and focus so you can think straight. If anger takes over you then it'll cloud your judgement, therefore, making you choose the wrong decisions.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
I don't deal with them. I stay away from them actually, especially if I know his attitude. However if its my first time to know him as difficult one, I just dont argue iwth them WE dont have same views. and leave him alone.
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
I talking to them is not really necessary I don't talk to them. I avoid them as much as I can so as not to hurt them as well if ever I could speak words that might not be good. If I should talk to them, then I make my patience really long so that I can endure them.