if friend tell your secret to the other, what are your feeling? u can do what

A recent survey shows even the best secret keeper can only hold it for 47 hours. So don't let out your secret or better forget the secret coz you too are a human being .

thats why i dont really tell secret to my friends but only to my mother. i really dont trust friends even if they are my friends, i mean in any way like secret things coz i know somehow they will slip their tongue and tell it to anyone specially if we have bad day together and they will do it as their revenge to me. if one of my friend do that to me then thats the last and the end of our friendship.

See this is exactly why I rarely tell secrets that I do not want to be told to a person. All it takes for the person I tell to tell the wrong person about it accidentally and it leads to everyone knowing what I do not want anyone else to know. Therefore, I keep my secrets to myself. Therefore if no one is told, then know one will find out. However, let's say for a minute if I actually did tell a secret to someone that I thought I trusted and they betrayed me by telling the secret. Exactly how would I feel about that? Well first I would be telling myself that I should have seen that coming. Then I would feel rather frustrated with that person and quite upset. I gave them that secret in confidence. Even if they did not do that intentionally, it is still something that hurts a lot. You trust that person and then they go and blab your secret. Trust is something that is hard to earn. When you tell a person a secret, that means that you trust them beyond anything. Perhaps one might say anything without reason. Therefore, when that happens, that trust gets shattered into a million pieces. It is something that would feel like one of the worst things in the world, especially a long standing friendship.

My life is full of secrets especially about the things related to work. Normally people would feel hurt if people tell their secrets to other but in my case I dont feel that way anymore cause I am already expecting that these people are going to tell on me and yeah I was right. I think we cant really find anybody now who can really keep secrets so i have that idea already so if someone betrays me then I wont have to feel so bad.

This day its really hard to find some one who can keep secret, well he is your close friend you should already now her character. I have few good friend but I will tell my secret to only one person who will not betray me GOD. Woman tend to gossip when they start nothing will stop her to slip her tongue and use his mind and tell your secret to others.

that is not good , if my friend has done the same to me i will stop seeing them again cos like you said she is your best friend so it feels pain when they are the person who betray us ,they do not treasure the relationship so in my case i also do not need to treasure this relationship any more .