mylot Friends!!

To be honest, since i joined mylot, i have only requested one friend. And he is so nice. The rest, as they say is history. I don't really look for anything, i just like to make friends with all. TATA.

I add them up after coming accross them for few times on boards--if we share anything any common then its an excuse for them to be in my list

I liked them while interacting. Still I don't request easily. I just tried my will power, and most of them sent me requests themselves except a few ones. And then there were others who requested by themselves. I like having friends, so... Just noticed some two or three have deleted me from their list. Their choice... After all it was me who was not showing up!

I really don't look for friends. If someone ask me to be a friend, I say yes.

I made a few requests when I first started here but after a short while I found that a lot of the requests came to me which is really great. Now I have a nice number of pals here and I receive a lot of notifications every day. As to what I look for in a MyLot friend is just a sense of connection and discussions started by the person that interest me. I suppose it is not all that different to making friends in the ‘real’ world. Some people we tend to naturally gravitate to; call it things in common, chemistry...Who knows...

b]Hello my friend zandi458 Ji,[/b] Well, as far as I am concerned, I alwas accede request made by any members here, even without gong into details in respective profiles. I do not want to get biased by gender/cast /creed etc. including so and so is vegetarian /smoker/drinker etc. To tell you from the heart, all are good and well-wishers to me here, why at all get biased by peeping into their profile and forming un-wanted opinions to discard them. Well, I keep my comments reserved, without being dragged much into conversation. With so much of my experience, I have never found cheated from others. May God bless You and have a great time.

I do choose them base on inner-congenial factor after several communicating to each other which is based on the common interest element. For furtherance both parties creatively generate very clear and pragmatic motives and objectives. Common interests will showers blissfulness in one's friendship.

mmh nomrally i accept all friend requests other members send me and as regards me on mylot really seldom i asked friend requests...may be it can happen when i must send private message to some members and so we must be friend to do that on this site...for example..

when i receive a friend request, i go to their profiles first before accepting the request. but for making a friend request, i usually do it to members who are not yet in my list on the time they respond to my discussion. i let them in my list even if they are not frequently responding to my discussions. it is good to have more friends as you will have a lot of discussions to respond to, and you don't have to browse a lot in the pages and tabs, you will just see them coming in to your email as notifications.

dear mitraa, i read a discussion or a response and when i like the way it is written, i add the author to my list. sometimes i find newbies who seem to be very agressive and interesting, i add them too. thank you for this discussion. ann

Well, when I found that someone has the same interests like me ( we are posting few times in same discussions) and we are giving comments each other, then I will send him/her request, sometimes I just like someone's opinions and I add him/her to my friends list, and other peoples from my friend-list are peoples that sended me request. I always accept their requests. Most of the peoples have never send me any messages, but I don't delete them. And there are many peoples, who are asking you for a friendship, but after you acepted them, they just start to invite you to join other 'gpt' sites....

Yes my lot friends i choose it for only earning money when i start discussion then come to know here we make knowledge also and do start working in this and try to respond more and more.

read their activities and got same ideas , then put a request..