It's hard to forget enemy? It's better not to make any enemy.

dear vine, i dont think i really had an enemy. i do get into arguments but it is left there afterwards. i never think of them as enemy. i do get angry too but ones it subsides, i am the same me again. i dont hold grudges. i am always feeling at peace that way. have a nice day. ann

Yeah, as far as I am concerned, I think I could agree with you more. I usually just can not forget the enemy that I have in my life.They may just come into my mind now and then. So if you want to have a better life. I think do not make any enemy will be better.

our enemies memory stays with us because they are enemies. whatever happened made them an enemy to you. you won't forget. as far as trying to keep peace in the world, we will always have enemies. the reason not everyone will like us.

i think no body wants to have enemy. but there are some psychological issues which are to be play a vital role. i think there are number of things has to be taken as when two persons are not happy with each other and have thought conflicts and if they are two aggressive about their views then they could treat each other as enemies and i think this aggressiveness should be controlled.

I always keep my friends very close, but my enemies i keep closer. You always have to keep an eye on them. TATA.

Well that feeling was a bless, from our mind and heart, that's natural, so the thing that we have to do is to forget it and forgiving, then you will feel much and much better.

remeber most of my school friends names but dont remeber the enemy one for they arent worth it

Hi there, What I have experienced is that te childhood enmity does not last long and after some time we becomes friends once again. No enmity i desirable and as far as possible it should be avoided.

I definitely agree with you that it is difficult to forget our enemies and that is the reason that I try not to have such an intense dislike of other people to the point that I would consider them to be my enemies. One of the reasons that I think it is difficult if not impossible to forget our enemies is because of the fact that they hurt us in such a way that it is something that ingrains itself into our being.

I don't let those things bother me. I don't go around making enemies and don't worry too much about making friends either. See people are only friends when you have money or need you otherwise are quick to hurt you so that is not my priority in life.

That's 'hate' that we're feeling that's why we can't forget our enemy. we're always reminded by that emotion of our enemy that's why it registers deep into our hearts. the best thing to do to keep out of this burning emotion is to learn to forgive so you'll learn to forget. -fv101

Well, in my experience ,the more you want to forget,the more difficult you feel.So the best ways to forget yout enemy is to make friends with he/she.If you can't make it,then you have to let nature take its course.The time will help you forget all the things at last.

Maybe the reason why you just cant forget the names of your enemies is because you think too much of the pain that they gave you sometime ago, you should somehow try to forget what happened in the past and move on so that you will have a good life ahead of you. It doesnt mean you dont care anymore with what they did to you its just that you need to let yourself move on and face some more difficult situations then just live bout the past at all. Thanks for asking

I think I understand what you meant about not forgetting about enemy or someone who hurt you or vice versa. From my childhood, I had few friends but something happened. They were distance around me. I also feel that all my friends or some people that i knew didn't like me. They changed and were not nice. I remember people who hurt me. Its a hurtful feeling and also sad. I still remember friend's names from the past that aren't enemies but those seem to fade away. I mostly remember the negatives on the stuff me or the person did and it affects me somewhat. I'm trying to forgive and forget and move on, but still am sad. I guess this how life is. Ups and downs.

its like that i know...but we should try to reverse the situation...and for me i have tried to do in practical...i dont look back if i want to forget a person...i never go that way, which will remind you of all the bad things the person did to you...that will make your life easier....try and do it

It's not possible not to make any enemy at all.. BUt we can forget about them as time goes by.. MOst of us, has got this nature in us, getting heated up in a moment of folly, and hating whoever, at that very moment.. BUt once we cooled down, everything will be fine again.. There are no eternal enemies, as time will heal all wounds.. Whatever is done cant be undone, and thus why harbour the hatred?? hehe

I do agree that it's hard to forget an enemy. You can never understand the reason why they hurt you in the first place. It's easy for them to be cruel to you and you noticed that you are the only one recipient of those animosity. As years progresses you will always remember the pain. But it's more dull only some hard residue left. It's better not to make any enemy along the course of your life because living a peaceful life with out an enemy is much better. Life is beautiful with out somebody holding grudge against you or you to other people.

It is difficult to forget someone who has hurt us and I guess we will probably never forget and that’s okay because we can learn important lessons from being hurt too but what I think is paramount is forgiveness so as not to have bitterness and resentment in our hearts. I believe that forgiving does not mean condoning; it means freeing your heart and not allowing someone’s hurtful actions control your feelings.

I so much agree with you... I have so many friends but I tend to forget their names including their faces. That's how terrible I am. I'm not only referring to my enemies but to my friends also. I don't intend to g\hurt their feelings but sometimes, things just doesn't happen the way it use to be.

well i ve not had a typical enemy like that but i think when ever i felt hatred towards anyone for any bad thing they did, i would just shout it out at them and make them feel guilty! after which we eventually end up talking. . . so no great enemies! ;)