who gives the most amount of hurt? friend? or foe?
By polino
@polino (54)
April 10, 2010 1:58am CST
we all have our opinions in mind, everyone of us has its situations in life that would eventually lead us to losing someone special to us, a friend, a close friend or may be a best friend, it is all up to the person or persons involved, friend or foe? who gives the most amount of hurt?
4 responses
@mirafe_072004 (11)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
for me..all the same..but they have different situations and it depends on the situations..you just don't know that your friend is your enemy or your enemy will become your friend.
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
10 Apr 10
I do believe that it is the friend that gives the most hurt. With an enemy, you expected such person to hurt you considering that he is your enemy. But with a friend, you never expected such. So it is obvious that you trust your friend and naturally you would be hurt more considering that you will never expect your friend to hurt you in such manner.
@polino (54)
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10 Apr 10
yes sir both does give the hurt but it is the friend that gives the most of the hurt because you dont expect something hurting from a friend, in the case of the enemy it is expected that hurt will surely come. but i do believe that hurt does not come when the circumstance involves a TRUE friend, because what is the good in the friendship if one cannot say exactly what something means may it be good or bad, may it be hurting or not, anybody can say charming things and try to please and to flatter and in the end the hurt comes unexpectedly but a True friend always say unpleasant things and does not mind giving pain or giving the hurt because to a True friend it may be the chance for the person to be stronger in life.....
@myzire72 (1154)
• Singapore
10 Apr 10
Both can give hurt, but the hurt that comes from a friend will hurt more. We trust our friends, and even tell them our secrets. Also, we never really put up any kind of defences against our friends. So, if friends turn against us, we will surely get hurt easily. On the other hand, as we are usually guarded against our enemies, it would be hard for them to hurt us badly, though it's possible.
@polino (54)
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10 Apr 10
yes you are correct, a friend does hurt more because considering you consider a person a friend you dont expect something from that person hurting you. on the other hand the enemy, the supposed hurt from the enemy is expected so you prepared so it does not hurt as much as the hurt of a friend, but it can also depend on the circumstance at hand, because i think the situation would change if it is a True friend that is giving the hurt.
@pearl_smith (41)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
the one who hurt you the most is a friend because you dont expect it and when they hurt you you dont relise how much you like them then it hurts more that way
