Have you cheated on your partner any time?
By kranthirockz
@kranthirockz (262)
India
April 11, 2010 5:08am CST
Have you cheated on your partner ?,and just never told them or decided to just deny it to this day?...Nope. I'm not a cheater, and I'm kinda unforgiving when it comes to cheating. I've had a crazy number of girlfriends over the years and nearly all of them turned out to be cheaters, so I have a strict "kick em to the curb" policy. Really though when you get down to it, when you're in a relationship, you should be able to trust somebody, and lying and sneaking around cheating on hem is a serious betrayal of said trust. Wouldn't you agree?....so guys tell me HAVE YOU CHEATED YOUR PARTNER ANY TIME?,,,
6 responses
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
22 Apr 10
It depends on what you in fact say is cheating .Me and my partner are in love for 5 years now and we sometimes do it with other people but we say it each other.It is just the simple fact that people always need somthing different.We are not jealous as we tell everything each other and we do it just for the fun with no feelings toward other people.
@LovingLife139 (1504)
• United States
21 Apr 10
I never have, no. My husband and I joke that we wouldn't have the time to cheat on one another...we're together 24/7/365! 
I can't imagine being cheated on by my husband. Not because I don't want to think about it, or am hoping it'll never happen...it's like one of those things you just know. If he ever cheated on me I think it would be a shock first, hurt later, simply because I see it as far from the realm of possibility as anything that's ever happened or will happen.
If I was cheated on, I would forgive, get counseling, and vow with my husband to make things better. I don't believe in divorce. However, if I was dating and I was with someone I thought could be The One, maybe not, I could do the same "kick to the curb" type of policy. I definitely understand, coming from your relationship background, that this policy would be strictly enforced!
We should be able to trust our partners. At the same time, we all have to realize that not everyone's perfect. In reality, NO ONE is. I've done things that have hurt my husband. Not intentionally, and at the time, I had no idea it would hurt him. After I found out it indeed had, I apologized and have stayed away from doing the same types of things. The situation goes vice versa. My husband has done things to sway my trust in different instances, but I realize he's only human. We learn what we both are comfortable with and make things better from there. I would never take a break from my husband over something as trivial as a misunderstanding. People tend to overreact in such incidents, believing their partner "did it on purpose". If that person makes amends and stays away from doing hurtful acts, that should BUILD trust.
I can't imagine being cheated on by my husband. Not because I don't want to think about it, or am hoping it'll never happen...it's like one of those things you just know. If he ever cheated on me I think it would be a shock first, hurt later, simply because I see it as far from the realm of possibility as anything that's ever happened or will happen.
If I was cheated on, I would forgive, get counseling, and vow with my husband to make things better. I don't believe in divorce. However, if I was dating and I was with someone I thought could be The One, maybe not, I could do the same "kick to the curb" type of policy. I definitely understand, coming from your relationship background, that this policy would be strictly enforced!
We should be able to trust our partners. At the same time, we all have to realize that not everyone's perfect. In reality, NO ONE is. I've done things that have hurt my husband. Not intentionally, and at the time, I had no idea it would hurt him. After I found out it indeed had, I apologized and have stayed away from doing the same types of things. The situation goes vice versa. My husband has done things to sway my trust in different instances, but I realize he's only human. We learn what we both are comfortable with and make things better from there. I would never take a break from my husband over something as trivial as a misunderstanding. People tend to overreact in such incidents, believing their partner "did it on purpose". If that person makes amends and stays away from doing hurtful acts, that should BUILD trust.
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
11 Apr 10
I think I'm a loyal partner. LOL. I never cheat on my partner. I wonder myself why I can't have more than one relationship with a man. when I hadn't married, I never cheated on my date. now when I have had a husband, I can be more loyal to my husband. yaa..sometimes I have chat with another guys. but it doesn't mean I want to have further relation with him like meeting face to face or others. I'm glad to be loyal. hope my partner will be like me too..^__^
@cloud31 (5809)
•
11 Apr 10
Hi,
So far I never fond of cheating any one especially to someone I cared for,I cannot tolerate a lie or betrayal in my relationship so I don't think I will have the courage to cheat my partner.I just can say,once you love your partner, you will never think of cheating him/her and not even think of hurting him by all means..
Happy myLotting..Good day!
