I never had a girlfriend why?
By sebastian94
@sebastian94 (34)
Romania
April 11, 2010 9:08am CST
Ok, i wouldn't have asked this question if i knew i was an ugly loser with no future. he thing is that i never had a girlfriend altough many girls tell me how cute and handsome i am and many are even now flirting with me. I also go to the gym and i made some nice pecs, abs and biceps and all my friends say;"with those pecs you sure are a lady's killer" and my family asks me: "how many gf do you have". So if i meet the "requirements" for almost all girls why dont i have a gf. I have to admit i am also very shy when girls are around i can't even think straight when a girl wishes to talk to me, could this be the reason?
Thx a lot!
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5 responses
@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
22 Apr 10
No, you just did not meet the right one yet. That is all.
You have a lot of time ahead of you. Don't rush into anything.
You have enough time to get girlfriends.
Girls love smart boys too you now. You should concentrate more on
your studies and get yourself a good job after.
Then you will have ladies at your feet forever. 
Take care.
Take care.
@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
it might, or are ever think of yourself as gay or a gay potential just asking don't be offended..
@sebastian94 (34)
• Romania
11 Apr 10
no wtf?! First I AM NOT GAY if i was i would have find out some time ago don't you think? Second i like girls a lot, why do you think i asked about why i don't have a gf if i was gay i would have asked why i dont have a boyfriend :)) Third many hav told me that im still too young (im 15 by the way). Fourth gays are freaks of nature the chances to consider myself one of "them" is zero. So there you go. Oh, and no offense taken by the way. So now that this is solved do you have other explanations? Thank you!
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
26 Apr 10
I guess that is one of the reasons why you don't have a girlfriend. Or maybe the right girl for you hasn't arrive yet. Girls don't always look for the physical aspect of the guy. We, girls still go for the attitude of the guy. And it is a bonus for us if the guy has good looks as well as the right attitude.
@Saranggola (956)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Do you have a facebook account? I think I wanna see you. I can't really judge someone whom I have never seen. But based on what you said, I think it's you who has too much expectations and got high standards in choosing a girl.
@bunnyxoxoxo (146)
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25 Apr 10
well..I don't think your kinda gay or s0mething..you've said earlier that you're just 15..don't rush anything girls will always come at you but at the right time..maybe not now but maybe some other time..and also if you really met the standards of the girl you like..don't be afraid to try to court her or talk to her..there's no harm on trying..
"there are many fishes in the sea"
"the one that will have the fruit must climb the tree"
(hope you understand.. :]])
-look at this two quotes..always keep this in mind.. :))
