Why is it that we felt shy and uneasy if we saw the one we love?
By geniustiger
@geniustiger (1694)
Philippines
April 11, 2010 11:04am CST
Got confused of my feelings sometimes as we
talk again about love. Why is it I felt shy
and uneasy if the one I love is going with
me and talked to me? Is it the real reaction
that you really feel in love with him or
just a simple of not controlling myself in the
situation. Have you also felt this way as I am
going back to that experiences?
Do you get uneasy if he is with you all around?
If he is not with you , you missed him and if
he is there seems that you don't want to talk.
What is your thoughts of this feeling, is it
normal or abnormal hehehehh. Might be got shy
with friends that teasing you there.
5 responses
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
As we are getting mature enough we learned how
to control all this feelings over our head.
Might be new to it as the first time of experienced
that happened when I got fall in love.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
12 Apr 10
Love can be a complex emotion. It can take us so many places. Often we are afraid to show our true feelings to the one we adore. There is always the chance they will reject us. Nobody wants to have a broken heart. Yet if we don't take a chance on our hearts, we will never know if our choice would have brought happiness or regret. Waiting for your special someone to come to you might seem an eternity in coming. Sometimes we just have to give it all we've got and let the sparks fall where they may.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
It is true that sometimes we will try our
best to show our goodness to him so that
he will notice later that we like him
sometimes but just wait for the right time
to grow and put into action. "Let the
action speaks louder than words". But
I don't think if it will effect to him
specially if you are both close friends.
For some instance he just treat it as
friends care.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
11 Apr 10
When we love someone, we are willing to open ourselves to their judgement and this makes us more self conscious of all the faults we think we have. It takes a while for love to turn to trust and make us comfortable with each other.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
So we are only conscious of what they are
going to say to us. Whether it is constructive
or destructive ideas. It takes time to win
the trust to him as you go along the way
of companionship and courtship. Through this
way that we could test the time that we can trust
him already.
@yunlaa2008 (9)
• China
11 Apr 10
according to your statement above,i totally believe that you fall in love with him,coz i had the same feeling when I hang out with the girl i go after.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
hello there yunlaa2008!
You mean men are also same with what women feel
to you or someone else. I guess this is the true
feeling of loving each other.So in your own how
could you handle it as a man? Do get nervous of
saying something to her as women also heart beat
faster. What a power of LOVE is ... Cannot be
explained so much , heheheheh
@personaave (598)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
That's how I felt when I was younger, and I thought I got over it. Apparently, not totally. There are times when I feel self-conscious when he's around, especially when he's near me. I don't feel shy, though, just a little tongue-tied at times. More often, I just try to make conversation and to joke around as casually as I can, and I try to calm my nerves down. I feel these things whenever we're together maybe because he's someone special for me, and I don't want to mess things up between us.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
Nice to hear that one that you could insert some
jokes out of the consciousness you have.Presence of
mind is very important to avoid embarrasment heheheh.
