Respect..that's all she wanted...

@irent23 (148)
Dubai, United Arab Emirates
April 11, 2010 11:53am CST
Last night we had a talk with my older sister. She is a Sales Associate in one of a prestigious department store here in my country. She told me about the incident happened the other day with her co-worker. Each day they have a quota to be fulfilled. My sister had a big time customer who went there to buy toys for her child. So, she entertained her, attending her needs. Suddenly her co-worker stand at her side answering questions at my sister's customer. My sister was shocked, they have a rules to be followed to not assist customers if there's already an SA who assisted it. But my sister doesn't mind her until such time my sister was called by her manager just for awhile. The time she was away from her customer that co-worker of her got a chance to grabbed her customer and the merits that was intended for my sister was passed to her co-worker and take note that co-worker of her was used to be her friend for a long time... Do you think her co-worker respected her for what she did? If you're on my sister shoe what will you do? Give me your thoughts guys.. happy mylotting!^_^
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@khalida (1126)
• India
11 Apr 10
well if yur sister got busy when she had to be attending the customer, then obviously somebody had to attend to the customer's queries right! but when she was back, she should have taken up the situation and told her friend politely to back off. that way she would have got the credits !
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@irent23 (148)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
12 Apr 10
Yes, that was she did.. she asked her co-worker to back off because she'll be the one continue attending the customer. But the respond of her friend was.."you're sorry I've had countered all it already and the approval of my quota was already signed up..My sister was really hurt at that time. Imagine in just a couple of minute that was so fast. Anyways, thanks for your respond dear!..happy mylotting!
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@khalida (1126)
• India
12 Apr 10
well that's said. . . her timing was bad i guess . .!
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Its inappropriate to even try to steal someone's customer unless you yourself tell them that hey can you please assist the said customer? In the situation where in your sister got snatched of this customer i think that old hag really wants to get this customer by hook or by crook lol .Your sister at least needs to talk to her and explain to her what happened so that next time that other girl will be aware that your sister is watching her. Yes its a matter of respect for each other and thats what that co worker of your sister lacks
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@irent23 (148)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
12 Apr 10
Yeah, that was she did she talked to her right after her customer was gone. She asked her why did you that to me?., but she doesn't get any respond from her. My sister got a little angry but not to show it there because it's not a proper place. Respect is very important and now my sister was badly hurt of what her coworker did for having no respect to her. I know healing will come in God's time. Thanks setsuna26! have a nice day..^_^
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Good thing your sister is pretty much well taught by your parents go give respect when needed i think that other lady is by far too selfish .People need to realize although life is pretty much tough nowadays we still need to think and respect other people just the way we want to be respected as well
@dbeast (1495)
• India
11 Apr 10
This could have been worked out a lot better.Before your sister had left if she had told the customer to wait for a couple of minutes I bet the customer would have obliged and there is no reason for the other rep to step in. It was really bad of the other rep to take advantage in such a situation.She could have helped the customer and at the end of the day given the credits over to your sister and hence being a good person.But that is the way things are now.Survival of the fittest.No matter how good people are and want to be the animal inside somehow finds a way out.
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@irent23 (148)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
12 Apr 10
Yeah, you're right! sometimes I have that kind of animal inside but I try my best that it wont go out..lol!.. Back to my sister, at first my sister was glad because she helped her but she has other intentions why she's helping her. You know..their customers doesn't know the rules in the sales area only employees in that store. If that co-worker of her had a respect she won't do that. Thanks for the respond! have a wonderful day..
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• Philippines
12 Apr 10
If that happens to me, then i would still forgive that co worker of mine, but will have to remind this to our superior that we have rules to follow, it will be upon the discretion of the manager who is going to merit the sales. Although I can say to your sister not to worry because there are so many fishes in the sea and that the co worker who did that to her will also be getting what she deserve (karma). Besides, you said that it was a long time friend, hmmm very competitive environment though, but still, keep your focus on what you do. Always do good to others even if they do you wrong. God will still be in favor of you no matter what happens. Happy Mylotting.
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@irent23 (148)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
12 Apr 10
Very well said strawberrychocodahi!.. My sister needs only the respect from her coworker/friend of her but now it's gone because of what had happened. She has a good heart, I know that her coworker was already forgiven for what she did. I guess the respect for her was broken for now but in the near future it will eventually back into pieces. Yeah..you're right God will be in His people who do good things even though they are badly hurt. Thank you my friend!
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Apr 10
For the fact that everything has been countered and approved, then she can do nothing to undo what her friend did. However, the incident will surely serve as a lesson to her not to trust anyone. As you can see, the friend knew so well that it was her costumer but still that friend chose to do such thing. I bet she did it with the intention to compete and she was aware that it would lead into an awkward situation between them. The inappropriateness of her actions would only show what kind of person she is or may she has not fully understood what the word "ethics" mean.
@irent23 (148)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
13 Apr 10
Exactly!...I think my sister learned a lesson well for what had happened. Thanks for dropping by. God bless.:-)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
That was wrong and unrespectful. the friend should've just stood back until your sister was called. it's much respectful than blocking your sister from the start. and she clearly didn't follow the rules. your sister was already attending to the costumer so the friend had no reason to butt in but she did. it really appears to me that it was intentional. was the friend running short on meeting the quota? well, even if she's desperate, that's still not a reason to screw a friend like that.
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@irent23 (148)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
12 Apr 10
I agree with you, but sad to say her friend was not like that at that time. And you know what my sister doesn't expected that she did that to her. She said others can do that to her but comes from a friend was so devastating. Thanks for responding frontvisions101..:)
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
12 Apr 10
Well for a start I would have very nicely told her that it is ok I was serving the Customer If my Manager would have called me I would told the Manager that I was in the middle of serving a Customer so could they please wait till I had finished serving the Customer, I would then have carried serving the Customer and once the Customer was Happy I would have gone to see the Manager, after that I would have words with the Co Worker and asked her not to interfere please when I am serving a Customer
• Canada
11 Apr 10
As a student, my daughter works part-time in a clothing store. She has a similar problem with one of her coworkers. My daughter circulates all shift, throughout the store, and her coworker tends to hover near the register. When my daughter first started, she would take her customers' items and place them on the counter to check them out when they were ready. Several times, she returned and her coworker was at the register, taking the sale. She had done NOTHING for the customer, except for accepting their payment, but got credit for the sale. The staff in the store do not earn commission but they DO have a sales quota to meet each day. So, my daughter was having to work extra hard to make up for the sales she "lost" to her coworker. She took some positive steps though... she reported to her boss about what was happening, only to find out that other staff had also reported the same coworker taking their sales... and she also learned to walk the customer to the cash when they were ready or not to leave their chosen merchandise unattended. She would loudly and clearly state to her coworker, by name, not to handle the sale because she was tending to her own customer. Unfortunately there are people that will always play these games... I hope your sister can also take some positive steps to ensure that her coworker no longer gets the merits your sister earned!
@irent23 (148)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
12 Apr 10
That's right, I guess my sister learned a lesson well in that incident. She said to me that coworker of her had a bad record to her other coworkers because not only her she did that but to others as well. I know my sister was hurt at the moment but in the long run I know she will be healed.. Glad to hear from you. Thanks!
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
I'd say at first glance that that what the co-worker did was very unethical, unless your sister asked her to take charge first since she was called by her boss. If she did this to me for the first time, I'd call her attention and talk to her in private about it. She may resent it but it is better to let her know that I didn't like what she did so that she won't do it again. If I will let her pass on me on this one, there's a great chance that she will do it again thinking that it is just ok with me to grab my customers and take credits for the efforts I've put on to my work. Have a great day and welcome to Mylot, Irent.:-)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
That was wrong and unrespectful. the friend should've just stood back until your sister was called. it's much respectful than blocking your sister from the start. and she clearly didn't follow the rules. your sister was already attending to the costumer so the friend had no reason to butt in but she did. it really appears to me that it was intentional. was the friend running short on meeting the quota? well, even if she's desperate, that's still not a reason to screw a friend like that.
@werty009 (404)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
well the co worker of your sister didn't respect your sister at all and the fact that they are friends for a long time then just for merits it's wrong to do that merits for friendship what a mess that friend of your sister is