How do you get out of a bad relationship.

United States
April 11, 2010 3:37pm CST
I have been with my finacee for over two years now, and we have an 8 month old daughter. In the beginning, all was well, but when I became pregnant with my daughter, he took a dive off the deep end. I don't really have anywhere to go, and am still secretly putting money aside for an apartment. Does anyone else that has been through this have any suggestions on how to cool someone down? I've tried everything; I walk away, and ignore it, I keep calm and collected, and I try my best to stay out of his way. But, it seems that the harder I try to end the fight before it gets out of hand, the angrier he gets. Am I missing something? Or doing something wrong?
4 responses
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
Well, your in a big problem, it seems to be a one side love, it means you care and treasure the relation with your fiancee for 2 long yrs but for him he wanted to end , now is the time for you to ask your self ??? what is the missing part, and whats wrong, you need to analyze and realize, maybe you done wrong or he don't love you. or he have any reason...And now is right time for you to decide, and move on...
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
There must be something wrong with him. Have you tried talking to him about it? I mean asking him if his feeling something. Is he in pain or something? It happened only recently?
@analynz (17)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
well, just fight for your right my friend, if you think that your relationship doesn't work anymore just stay away from him and live life happily with harmony, take good care of your daughter cause that's the one that makes your life happy to see her in good health, and love her so much... Try to refresh your self, don't close your mind of finding another someone else who love you so much and your daughter as well.
• Brazil
12 Apr 10
well i think you should take care of your life, put the past aside and think ahead, your dreams and live, live withoud much ... not look back