How lucky you are with your partners???
By cloud31
@cloud31 (5809)
April 11, 2010 4:13pm CST
Or I should ask this way...ARE YOU BLESSED WITH A GOOD PARTNERS? Do you consider yourself lucky having him/her.
What makes you feel and think you are LUCKY,Maybe he/she is possessing the quality of man/woman you are looking/dreaming or longing for ..Or you don't feel like lucky in this aspect of life?
What are the qualities he/she had that makes YOU LUCKY being his/her partner?
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@jeeyah (1092)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
I'm really blessed and lucky for having my partner! She loves me so much, and she understands me. She's not selfish. Unlike other people who don't give their partners freedom, she gives me freedom. She doesn't demand that much. However, she can be a bit clingy and needy sometimes, but I think it's okay and somewhat cute. Anyhow, I AM VERY LUCKY FOR HAVING HER.
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@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
I am blessed for having such a wonderful partner. She's cute, smart, God-fearing, responsible, witty, fashionable, thoughful, loving and caring. when i was sent to the hospital, she didn't go to work to make sure i am alright. she stayed by my side for four consecutive days. when i was discharged from the hospital, she bought me a device so i can monitor my blood sugar level... we have been through a lot and no can take her away from me... i love her, i really really do!
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
ME, I HAVE A GOOD HUSBAND. even he is not my dream-boy, but still i'am lucky to have Him. Doesn't matter to me whether you are rich or poor what most important is you have a pure heart. my husband has a good heart, he is responsible and have along patience on me. even there is a argument sometimes but he is the first who say sorry even though i know that it is my fault . he doesn't want that are argument will last longer, he will make a way to finish it. even he is not charm and handsome but i'am proud to my husband.
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@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Apr 10
Hello Cherwin,
I'm happy to know are also blessed with a good partner in life,Yes outward appearance its not really what we have to focus but the heart that beats for us, the love and understanding they were trying to give to us, and most of it how they care about our feelings being their partner.
Thank you for sharing and Happy myLotting!
@npadecio (161)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Hi Cloud,
Yes, I'm blessed with my partner (wife) and I couldn't ask for more. Aside from being her as a God-fearing person, she also embraced and loved not just 'the best' in me but 'the worst' as well. And most importantly, she had a clear vision in spending the rest of her life with me.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Hello again my beautiful friend. Before I got married one of my standards of having a real partner in life forever was to have a woman who really a "true believer" I mean God-fearing woman. Because in my point of view, if a woman is really a true believer and God-fearing, she would always listen what would be always the right one between a husband and a wife and to her family circle. She would always listen to her husband because according to one of God's will. A woman (wife) should never overpower her husband, she would of course suggest the best but it she should always listen and follow her husband's decisions.
Please don't get me wrong my friend..he he he
I hope if you want to settle down already, you would be landed on a hand of a real good husband though "there's no perfect person" here.
Good luck my dear friend...
Mobhomeir here...
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
ohhhh I forgot, I found it on my wife but not really perfect..hehehehe
@cloud31 (5809)
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12 Apr 10
Hello friend,
You're funny friend, you find it to your wife but not really perfect? lol..God fearing is a good standard of choosing a partner,submission of wife is really a good sign of love..You are lucky enough my friend though she don't follow you sometimes..
Thank you for your wish friend,thy will be done.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 10
if asked, lucky or not, I'm confused to answer. because together with my partner now I feel lucky at the same time feel less fortunate. maybe if I asked before we have a problem, I will say with certainty that I was very fortunate to have a couple like my husband. but now I feel I have become people who are not lucky, because my husband is now changed to me.
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@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
I can consider myself lucky with the person I am with. I love him dearly and I have to say he is just one of a kind. I am with him because I want to spend the rest of my life with him. Thus, it only means that he has a good heart and that he always looks out for me and his son. And I know that he will never leave me no matter what and that he loves me so.
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@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
12 Apr 10
Hi Cloud,
I am so lucky to have a husband who is also a bestfriend and a partner. he's so hardworking and never give me any headache for coming late and being with friends or having vices. he always believe in my talent and ever supportiv of my career. i always say that he is the wind beneath my wings.
@cloud31 (5809)
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12 Apr 10
Hello Ms Francisco,
I knew and feel that you are lucky with your partner the first time I had interaction with you,I'm so amazed for that, and very happy knowing about that..wow that's a perfect phrase to a perfect partner,"THE WIND BENEATH YOUR WINGS" i love that!God bless!Nice day ahead!
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@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
12 Apr 10
thank you so much for consistently affirming me and my being. that's why i am happy here...happy and inspired i am living my life with my family, friends, and people around me!
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
11 Apr 10
Well I thought I was lucky. I am afraid she did not love me. Each time its all warm and generous, you can feel the connection and then something along the way just changes, and well she seems to have changed her mind and even though she is not hurting my feelings, has made it clear she wants to move on.so no not that lucky
@cloud31 (5809)
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12 Apr 10
At first you thought you was,but now seems not so? I guess you there something needs revival with your feelings, sometimes staying together for quiet long will make relationship dull but it doesn't mean you fall out of love..Maybe its kind of renewal,how about remember those days together,give time to your feelings to feel the warm of love and affection? I hope you will find yourself lucky again with the same partner and the same feeling of love..
Good luck and Have a nice day!
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
12 Apr 10
aww that was really nice of you to say. I hope you are right. I hope I am very wrong and she comes around her feelings. I have not fallen out of love, I just don't think she feels the same way anymore, but I hope she does not give up. :)
@cloud31 (5809)
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12 Apr 10
Show her that you still care,give her the feeling of security that your love with her still complete no less after all these days.More time to show your love and if you think she doesn't feel the same way as before, make something to regain her feelings to you,I know you can and I believe you know how to win her feelings again...If you still care and love her it easy for you to do it and she would surely feel how sincere you are!..Good luck!! Pray for you!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
12 Apr 10
Blessed Partner---in the sense the paerson you get married to right---if thats the case i do not have any experience yet---but i'm sure that i'm lucky enought to get one good,nice,humble and lovable partner in the coming days.I'm working on it though but i dont have too much time may be to impress her or spend some time with her chatting---hope she doesn't get me wrong---would she really mind it prettie????
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
12 Apr 10
I do not bluff around with such kinda issues prettie and i'm really serious about her she makes me puzzled at times but learning about her fast enough and then i can promise her the world
@cloud31 (5809)
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12 Apr 10
Hi sunny,
So you don't have partner yet but you have a prospect,well according to you on how you describe her I think you are lucky enough,humble nice,good lovable that's so much for luckiness,if you can find someone like you said.Well,impressing her is not hard though maybe you need to give an effort doing so make her feel your intention to her is serious enough..Good luck! And Happy myLotting!
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
I don' consider myself lucky when it comes to partner. I've been in 3 relationship and all of ended with hatred. First man I've loved got me pregnant and he run away, then the second one, he just used me for his own benefit. Third guy which is my current boyfriend he is indeed womanizer but of course he kept on denying it. But I caught him sleeping with my friend that is the reason why we broke up and separate for awhile. But he still keep on coming back, to make the long story short I still love him and accept him again.
He is not sweet or romantic as any other man do, but he is thoughtful when it comes to his words. He don't remember my birthday and our anniversary, but he dont forget to keep on asking "How am I?". He don't communicate with me most of the time, he can only remember to text me twice a week.
As you can see, I have a terrible and worst boyfriend. But I still and will keep on loving him and accepted all his flaws, maybe I am just martyr.
@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Apr 10
Hello ada,
I'm sorry to know that you are not lucky for a partner,but I hope it will become better soon just try your best for him and if you feel not worth to do it and you have to make up something about it,sometimes if it doesn't work to both and to yourself its getting unfair,you have to make things certain for yourself too, not just for the sake of other party or because you love your partner but for yourself as well,I hope it will work to both of you.God bless and Happy myLotting!
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
Hello yeah I am hoping for the best result of all this sacrifices. I hope later on he will find out and appreciate all the things that I need to understand about his flaws and so on.
Thank you much.. Enjoy and happy mylotting...
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
12 Apr 10
I feel lucky with my partner coz I feel he’s the first and only person who’s never been judgmental and critical of me under any circumstances. We’ve discussed issues but he’s never imposed his will over mine…he’s been apprehensive of a lot may situations and maybe advised me not to go ahead but even then when I’ve gone ahead and goofed it up, he’s always been there for me as my pillar of strength. Also he’s the best friend I’ve ever had…I’ve taken many liberties with him but he’s never been offended.
On the flip side, he’s very lazy and not career-oriented with the result that he doesn’t earn much and in these trying times, I could do with a little more money…also maybe I wouldn’t have had to work fulltime if he had a better job.
@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Apr 10
Hi sudip,
I think you are and I'm happy for you, accepting them for who they are, both side c is a sign of a perfect feeling and relationship to our partner, they can become as you said a bestfriend whom we can depend at all times,though we find some weaknesses of themselves most of those imperfections can cover up by love so I believe you are blessed with a good partner.
Thank you for sharing and Happy myLotting!
@ONEIRO (26)
• Greece
12 Apr 10
Hi cloud.Well i beleive i m very lucky with my partner. We are together till 1985 and we have almost the same relationship as in the beggining.I m lucky bec he is a man that never behave as i m his "sure for him". I mean that every day he tries to keep the relationship live between us with different ways. Of course i was lucky from the beggining bec we had the same hobbies, interests, etc. So we can understand each other. So if for example he wants to read a book i m not thinking bad like "he doesnt pay attention on me" but i take my book and read and after we discuss about what we have read. This is a small example. He is close to me when i need whatever help, we are friends and lovers at the same time. We dont keep each other as a prisoner. We give each other his air to breath. So after all we have a great relationship although have pass so many years that we are together.
@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Apr 10
Hello ONEIRO,
I think even how many years will past we if we still can feel the love and affection from our partners that really a sign of a perfect combination, and sure that time you can that you're lucky enough to have him/her as partner for all the things and all those years you've been together that's the real meaning of love.
Thank you for sharing it with us,,Keep it up..Happy myLotting!
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
dear cloud,
he shares with me what he has, thoughts, dreams, happiness, earnings, his sorrow,.. am lucky, am i not?
ann
@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Apr 10
Hello aunt,
Of course you are,with what he share with you? You can consider yourself as lucky especially with the words earnings kidding...sorrow I think we can consider about this first,,kidding aunt..lol..For better and for worse that's the most description of this..very lucky aunt..
Thank you for sharing..Good day ahead!
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
I'm lucky because she loves me a lot! I can't even give her the equal love she's giving me right now. Well, she's a pretty lady and a witty one. She's so thoughtful of texting everyday just to check if I've had my meals today or not. I don't know if we will last more to be husband and wife, time will tell.
@cloud31 (5809)
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12 Apr 10
Hello basqui!
That's so nice you find yourself lucky with your partner!huh? there's something wrong here,why you cannot give her the same as she is doing to you? Do you think she feel lucky having you too? I hope she do, I can say your partner give you the best to make you feel lucky enough with her,I hope you guys will make the best of it! Good luck and Good day ahead!
@noeraripin (111)
• Indonesia
12 Apr 10
hmm..
i lucky having her..
Because her so beautiful for me..
Not a beautiful in pyshic but a beautiful heart..
Her kindness..
Her attitude..
Oh...
i so fall in love to her...