there are alot of things which are out of our control

Patience and preseverance are great art, one how who mastered it can live a peaceful life and tolerate any tough times

Hi Jenny, I know that in life, there's a lot of things that need resolving. We live in a complex world where so many things are intertwined so that one person, one idea, or one action can not solve all of life's issues all at the same time. As an individual, we are different from one another, very unique beings, having different character traits, physical, mental, psychological and emotional capabilities, strengths and weaknesses. In life, there are a lot of things i would like to solve, but the truth is that i can not do it all given my strengths, weaknesses and capabilities. I can only take care or resolve situations am capable of handling. I don't try to fool myself into believing that I can do all things. Neither do i pretend to have "the answer" to every problem. I remember vividly my high school days where I was very good in my academics and sports. But when it came to extra curricular activities like debates and public presentations, I really sucked!!! I was a very shy person back then. Don't get me wrong, I was a good mixer, had tons of male and female pals, but when it came to speaking in front of a crowd, it was my "achilles heels". I mean I could write killer speeches, but when it came to delivering them personally, I was a sorry sight to behold. Bottom line is, I accepted my strengths and abilities as well as my weaknesses. I came to appreciate all my good points and my short comings and strive to make the best of my personal attributes. Always remember to keep things sweet and simple. Nobody is perfect. In every situation you find yourself, always give it your best shot.Do the best you can and leave the rest to God. Hugzzzzz.

You are absolutely right Jenny. This world we live in is very complex and our mind is only limited to the capacity of the knowledge it can accept or stored. There are many times that we don't really want to accept things for what they are, sometimes we tried to push them away and try to pretend they don't exist at all. Much better to deny and ignore or else if you try to explore things you will never succeed because there are some things that is out of control. But I believe that we as human being is powerful enough to control our life where it is heading. We can control our selves not to do bad things or stop thinking about negative things. We only have to try and we will succeed in no time.