how does you'r lover's ex still strike you?

Philippines
April 11, 2010 6:08pm CST
Does your partner's ex still has an impact to you? If you can rate the impact 10 being the highest and 1 being the lowest, how would you rate it and why?
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• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Yes it has a very high impact on me. If I was to rate it, I'd give it a 9. Although, I have not met that woman, she really gets into my nerves. Also despite the fact that my partner once told me that if he did not get the chance to meet me, he will be staying with that woman even if it's hurting him. That is one of the reasons why I totally got insecure because of that.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
Maybe the kind of impact she has on me is only 1. But I must admit that she had a great impact in me before and its not because I was jealous of her or something, its just because she did so many things that really got on my nerves. She couldnt accept the fact that she doesnt have anything to do with my husband and his family. She still wanted her part which is really crazy and she would always do something that will show me that she was still better than me. I didnt feel about that anyway cause I know for myself that even if she's going to say bad things about me to my husband's family, they also know for themselves who's decent and who's the right one for their son. I think she's the one jealous of me cause she knows that my husband's family is gonna love me more than they loved her. It doesnt matter to me on what she's going to do cause we are not of the same level and I just dont want to lower my standards just because of her. She's not worth it. And I think she knows it.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
12 Apr 10
I have never met her so she really has no impact. he is with me and that is how I want it. She of course made an impact on him, they were together a long time. But that is what makes him, him. I wouldnt change that at all.
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
12 Apr 10
Depending on how much you still care about your ex, that can vary. It was about a 10 for my before, but now it's dropped to about a 3 or a 4. I love someone else now and he seems happy, and even though I still think she's nowhere near good enough for him, well, that's his thing.
@ssxiona (91)
12 Apr 10
I havenot married so I can not answer your question. I think everyone should trust her husband because at the present it is you living with him not his exwife.