he only remember you when he has problem.

Philippines
April 12, 2010 9:19am CST
what are you going to do? will you ignore him if he ask you for a help? or are you going to help him?
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@razim17 (194)
• Malaysia
13 Apr 10
This is the most common thing happening in friendship.For me if it is someone close to me,i would just directly talk to him but if they are not so close i would just go away and thats it.
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
but the problem is i can't talk to him about that. im afraid that he might min interpret me. don't know what to do. :(
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
It depends on what he's asking for. If he is asking for financial help, then I could not deliver anything like that. But if he wants an ear to listen, then perhaps I could give it to him. But if this is an on-going-off-going thing where he just forgets me when he doesn't need anything, then I'd just do what I can but not do more than a mile for him. It doesn't mean though that I'd end the friendship. But I won't take it seriously either. It's just like how kids are, when we need something to our parents we become all so concern etc., but when we're in our toes then we'd forget even to kiss them. So life is like that, you just don't get yourself tangled with his problems and just try to be there (without offering something that would truly divert my routine). This type of friend isn't worth cherishing, but everyone deserves someone to listen to them even if they don't deserve it.
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
thanks. this will help me alot. before i told to my self that it will be better if i'd end our friendship but i can't do that. i don't want to loose him,i've treated him as my Best Friend.