If you are a man , do you like quiet and gentle woman ?
By ypyanyan
@ypyanyan (956)
China
April 13, 2010 12:12am CST
I am a girl ,but my character tend to boy's character.
so little boy like me .
my intimate friend told me that all boys and men like quiet and gentle women .
they like Long hair beauty girls .
But I never have a long hair . she suggest me that I should change myself from my tone and hair.
how do you think ?
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9 responses
@mrghost18 (28)
• India
13 Apr 10
I don't think so. As a boy I would like a gentle and simple girl, but according to me, you shouldn't change yourself to attract someone or get a life partner. You should stay as you are and that time a boy who starts loving you would really love you-not your makeups. And in your photo, you look beautiful enough...
-It's just a view from the angle of mine, hope some would agree with it.
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@mrghost18 (28)
• India
17 Apr 10
Thank you ypyanyan for appreciating my angle of view. Sorry for replying late.
Have a nice day. ..
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
In general, most guys would prefer to have a partner that is pretty, quiet and most femenine but, there are others who don't like the typical kind of girl that most guys like. Some guys like their partners to be outspoken, active and very energetic.
Different guys would have different reasons for their different choices when it comes to their ideal partner and that would also be the case for girls who fancy a particular partner that they want to be with.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
Sometimes, changes can be good but, it would be better if you are comfortable with what you are at the moment.
You can grow your hair long, do something with the tone that your friend mentioned but, if you are not really happy about such changes, you shouldn't force yourself so that you can be another typical girl with good manners and good appearance. Being natural is orginal and that better than trying to be the same with a lot of girls who seem to look all the same. 
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
13 Apr 10
i prefer a rather talkative but not so nagger in a woman. i guess, when i was younger, i prefer the gentle one but not at this age of mine. i want my life to be more lively, joyful, merry. when it comes to hair style, i want her longer but pure black.
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
13 Apr 10
I think I might of known you were a girl, but thank you for making that clear. Little boys like you, I am sure all boys like you, most boys like girls, some don't, but I am sure they still like you. I like long hair, but short hair can look nice too, I prefer long hair on a girl, I do not know why though.
I think, you should live your life the way YOU want to, and not worry about trying to impress others with the way you look, and have the boys accept you for who you are, and not be who they want you to be, but be true to yourself.
With appreciation.
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
13 Apr 10
I always appreciate the best response my friend, and sometimes I think you are too quick to give it to me.
You may choose however you like, I feel that it is best to wait at least 3 days, to give a fair chance to others, who may actually have a better answer then the one that I immediately like best, either because someone I really like posted it, or because it spoke to me.
Another may have a better, easier to understand, answer for you. I really do appreciate you, just wanted to share my thought there.
With Love and Appreciation.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
13 Apr 10
Hello there. If i where a man i would my girl to have a stylish hair(long), has a taste when it comes to clothes, elegant looking, tall, smart, sexy, pretty, and feminine. I like Flirty look.
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
13 Apr 10
I have always preferred a girl that is shorter then me. Everyone is smart, I like wise woman better.
One day you may have to ask me what I believe the difference between smart and wise is.
With appreciation.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
14 Apr 10
Hello, ypyanyan. Yes, definitely. I would like to impose that I'm lucky to have her and they will never have her. I want them them to realize that not every man is lucky to have a girlfriend like mine and what they have right now is not forever so they have to cherish and value their partners as if tomorrow she's no longer belongs to you.
I want them them to realize that not every man is lucky to have a girlfriend like mine and what they have right now is not forever so they have to cherish and value their partners as if tomorrow she's no longer belongs to you. @Mady2791 (545)
• United States
13 Apr 10
I like the opposite of me. I was raised not to curse so I like men that curse a lot, are a bit aggressive (but don't hit women)... in others words the 'bad guy' type image. I have always been Ms goody two shoes so I guess I need balance...someone that can complement me and show me the life in the streets and stuff 
@qujing1710 (210)
• China
15 May 10
tone is the most important.the hair is the second.in addition to that,boys don't like clever girls than them which have been very beautiful.i know boys very well though i am a girl.don't change yourself on purpose.if that,it is hard for girls to find the true love.okay,the best wishes to you,yanyan.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
13 Apr 10
No men prefer women with only feminine characters. Soft and gentle and shyness are they main traits and that differentiates men from women.. But personally i love an aggressive women in bed.
@joedollarhuat (580)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
Personally, I am a talkative guys so I would say I prefer quiet and gentle women to compliment. I have many friends who prefer talkative women because of their personality of being the quiet and shy type. Its really about complimenting each other :) When it comes to hair, I personally don't really care if she has long hair or short hair. But, most of my friends prefer girls with long straight hair. Hope you find this helpful :)
