If your girlfriend always cry , do you gradually dislike her for it ?

I am a girl and i usually cry...will they hate me for crying. I don't think so. But when a girl is always crying for a not so deep reason or it's just her hobby...maybe though I am not a man...I will hate her too.

So I laughed for about 2 minutes reading your topic post. My boyfriend cries a lot and it makes me think he's really unmanly and that really does not help. I would say he's more emotional than I am. It does get annoying after a while, but what can you do. I try to cheer him up. ._.

Seriously if you have a girlfriend and she easily cries, I guess you could tell her that she needs to grow up to become a stronger a women, because there will be many times in life when things will get hard, very hard and you can not always cry because that will not fix the problem, it is best to think of things in a positive way first. Everyone cries but if it is too much they should try to see things in a more positive view.

hello ypyanyan, i think it all depends entirely on the situation. if your friend is really really depressed or if she's in a middle of a very big problem, then one should understand her and crying is really a release of tension and all. So crying helps a lot! However, if its everytime you see each other, like there's no more happy moments anymore, then I think its not healthy. Its not going to be a happy relationship with your girlfriend if she cries all the time!

I am a very emotional person and that does mean that I will cry from time to time, but I don't always cry. That said, I don't think that there is going to be a gradual dislike that comes forth from the fact that there are people that always cry. In fact, I feel that it is quite the opposite, I think that people gain respect for being an individual that isn't afraid to share their emotions. Showing your emotions is healthy and that is why we shouldn't be afraid to do it.

I othen cry for different reasons. but i boring it. If my girlfriend always cry or complain.firstly,i will try my best to help her .but if she didn't stop,i was boring. You know,Every want to see smiling face. I will see the bright side of the things,i will try my best to DON'T CRY.

Hi, ypyanyan. Well if any of my friends will cry a lot, I will try my best to comfort them. And I will ask them what is wrong so that I can help them get over what is making them so sad. They may be depressed if they continue to cry so much too. My support would be mostly needed at this time.

my nephew ex used to cry over everything it like shut up already. my grandfather used to say its because girls bladder are to close to thier eyes lol

I am easy to cry too, but seldom cry, I hold my tears and hope my tears won't burst out. If I were a man, I think it would be quite annoying to spend all the time trying to comfort his girlfriend.

Good discussion. I always like those girls who often cry bcoz i believe that only kind heartened persons can cry. If i would have a g/f who often cries, then i would try hard to console her. I think a warm kiss on her forehead is sufficiant. If i would love someone then i hope she cant complain anyway on my love. I would love her with pure heart but unluckily there is no one to love. Take care.

No sweet. I will not dislike her.If I love him more she will love me more....!!! I like it.

If a person dislike another for the reason they just go on crying then there is no love,friendship or whatsoever.If my girlfriend cries I will convince her..but disliking her for the reason crying is just a waste...

frankly speaking, i don't like using the term "dislike" for this topic rather it's better to use "annoying" with regards with the family affairs that's rather a different story. it may be hard for others to understand the burden of one person on his/her family after all we are longing for different things which are simple to others but are intimate for him/her.............. with regards to other things than family affairs, crying over spilled milk just show immaturity. you cannot possibly accomplish everything without blemishes. they fail to recognize failure and disappointment to be part of life

at first you may appear helpless like a victim to your man but in the long run if you always cry during argument they will hate you for it. crying would appear to them as a means for you to win their heart and the argument so if you can just control your emotions and learn how to hide your feelings.

I find it is very hard to continue to cry, whilst you are being tickled. You could try that. As a guy, we like to ask, what is wrong? So, that we have a clear understanding of what we must fix. Many times, girls say, Nothing, or, If you don't know, I ain't going to tell you. And many other things, that lead me to believe girls think that boys can read minds. We can't. Please tell us. Now, if my girlfriend is always crying, I am going to want to fix the issues that are causing her stress. If that is me, or if I have to inspire someone to move away, whatever the case may be. If she is already my girlfriend, I would know already if she was prone to emotional stress, and I would hold her as often as she needed it, and read to her stories about other people going through similar situations. With appreciation.