how to balance the relationship between friends and GF?
By JimmySun
@jimmysun (401)
China
April 13, 2010 2:43am CST
recently i meet some troubles, my friends seem to be not friendly to me. they often leave me alone to do things i dont know. i know that i spend much time with my GF recently, but i really want to get well with them and i am trying my best to make up this situation. but it doesnt work....
4 responses
@goushijue (32)
• China
15 Jun 10
the best solution is to help them frind their the other half and then you can go along in paralel with all.
@OConnell87 (1042)
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13 Apr 10
i think a good idea would to be to arrange a night with your mates, just send them a txt asking if they want to do something at the weekend go to the pub or whatever you and your friends are interested in and it will go from there. Also i think you got to remember that you never ditch your friends for a girl so dont always cancel on them if you get an invite out otherwise if you keep turning down they will stop bothering because they will just assume that your answer will be no
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
You really don't have to make a problem with this kind of situation. You can always set an schedule for your girlfriend and your friends as well. Like if you had a date with your girl you can schedule it and see to it that you don't have some outing with your friends. That should happened regularly like you have to balance your time between the two.
But if both of your friends and your girl always competing for your time then nothing can be done about it. You only have to choose between the two on what's more important to you...your friend or your girl. I just wonder why your friends is not that supported at all with you and your girl.
@eurika008 (1)
• China
13 Apr 10
talk to your friends,told them you really care about them.Or u can introduce some
pretty girls to your friends,make they fall into love,than they'll understand your pain!
