Why do women prefer bad boys?
By mokkka
@mokkka (881)
Bulgaria
April 13, 2010 2:52am CST
Each time when a woman hear that topic says it's not true-each one wanted a smart and good guy.But do you think it is true?Because everything I see around me is that girl leave the worthy boys just because they are too good and there is no thrill.Do you prefer calm but a bit boring life or one filled with experiences and danger moments.
5 responses
@justdroppingby (296)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
I think it also has to do with our hormones and evolution. Weird, eh? I've read a couple of times in science journals (yeah i'm a geek) that when women are ovulating they tend to find more masculine guys hot and really, really attractive. They say that this is because of our evolutionary instinct to mate with the male that appears to have the most viable sperm (which is good for the species) and to make sure that that kind of robustness will be passed on to future generations. Since most bad boys project this kind of image (the facial hair, leather jacket, macho look, etc) then I guess that's what makes women go gaga, even if in the long term they are not really "good" for us. You might as well say that women are wired to have the hots for masculine-looking men... which is not limited to bad boys alone, I should add.
It's also interesting to note that the same research also found that there are also times in a woman's cycle that she goes for more soft, feminine-featured "good guys". This happens when a woman is menstruating, specifically. This is because during this time the body is hotwired for birth and so going for the guys with what seems to be a good paternal instinct that will take care of the brood is very beneficial for the woman. But since menstruation is just like 3-7 days of our cycle the attraction doesn't really last that long.
Personally yeah I've realized that I do tend to salivate over hunky guys when I'm in the middle of my cycle. Bad boys have more mystery and excitement thrown in with the package so they are particularly more delectable. But for long-term relationships no I wouldn't go steady with a "bad boy". I've gone down that path before and it's really messy and cause for too much heartache..
@pratheep87 (1227)
• India
13 Apr 10
Because my women thinking is always different. Teen girls are influenced my movies and tele vision to prefer some rude person as life partner.
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
13 Apr 10
and you won't find it a problem if the one who loves you is let's say a kind of criminal?Because their love in fact is really passionate and they usually live their lifes in a way they feel everything really strong...would you be with that kind of person if you know he needs you and has shown you his faithful love but other people around you don't known him as personality and try to make you quit seeing him?
@Saranggola (956)
• Philippines
13 Apr 10
Hmm maybe we like strong characters and bad boys portray them likely very well.