Maybe it is time for my friend to wake up
By swetashah
@swetashah (345)
United States
April 13, 2010 9:23pm CST
I guess it is sad to hear my good friend say, the girl he fall in love with for long time, eventually, she has another guy.
My friend definitely heartbroken, and it is presented by evidence. Another friend of his told him this club website, where the girl he so - called falling in love with for long time, actually hugging with another guy intimately in front of the camera, and posted in this dancing club's website. After he saw it, he was desperate, and we just felt sorry for him to find out this way.
To be honest, from our observation, this girl seems never fall in love with him, and she might just treated him like a friend. Maybe it was my friend's fault to imagine that she will be his girlfriend. Oh well, at least, he found out this very truth. I just don't want him to be hurt further more.
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5 responses
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
29 May 10
Yes, I do agree with you, your friend should not put so much thought about the lost love and that girl, he can still find someone else who really deserve his love and attention, it is very useless to long for a person who really doesn't love us, we will just hurt in the end. Life offers many exciting opportunities worthy to explore, we should not waste our time thinking a person who never care for us. May your friend can move on as soon as possible, he is still capable of falling in love with somebody else.
@swetashah (345)
• United States
1 Jun 10
He just not thinking straight at the moment. I hope that he would understand it at the end. Because we do want him find his love, not someone just trying to scam him for her benefit. We do care about him, and want him to be happy.
@tessagarrett (57)
• United States
14 Apr 10
this is sad. i hope he finds a girl that truly appreciates him=] he seems like he deserves a good healthy relationship and i think there is a girl that will give that to him. so good wishes for your friend and atleast he has a good friend like you ;)
@swetashah (345)
• United States
15 Apr 10
I hope that he will get over it, and wake up from it. As soon as he pick himself up, he should be able to find the girl that really appreciate him.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
14 Sep 10
Hi, swetashah. She should have not led him on like this. She should have told him the truth. For him to find this out, this has been very sad. I hope that he is able to heal and move past this. I know that it is not going to be easy for him to. She was wrong to ever deceive him like she has. I hope that she realizes how much she has hurt him. And some women always wonder why there are not any good men in this world. Things like this is the reason why..
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
31 Aug 10
Well life is full of ups and downs, so take all as experience and make mind and heart under our control, so it will cry or feel happy on how we take it.
@lyamsitiy (104)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
If he really liked the girl then he should have told her his feelings. I think your right in saying that your friend needs to wake up. He should accept the fact that the girl he likes is with someone else. I know its not easy forgetting the one person you really like but in this situation the girl has someone else already. You need to help your friend get over this girl and he should feel that no matter what happen he can still count on you guys.
