Do you cry or you make others cry ?
By beachdune
@beachdune (907)
India
April 14, 2010 12:29am CST
I have seen two categories of people - 1) those who cry for all silly issues and 2)those whose hobby is to make others cry. To which category do you belong - to the first or to the second or you belong to both or you don't belong to both ? Please respond !
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9 responses
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
15 Dec 12
Hi friend, i am not interested in both of them as well as don't fall in those categories. I don't want to cry as well as never make others to cry. Both of them are not good things. We must try our maximum to be happy and make others happy with our activities
@beachdune (907)
• India
27 Dec 12
Thats sounds great . And I find it amazing that you have discovered this discussion that I had started about 3 years back . And yes , both of them are kind of awkward . But yes , in India ( I know that by your name ) , I find a lot of people crying of useless issues ( especially women ) and I feel that its really unnecessary . During my days in the UK , I found that people there are much more stronger emotionally and know to t=control them well . Anyways good to know you are well aware of things .
@tarachand (3895)
• India
4 Aug 11
I don't belong to either of the two categories mentioned by you! I rarely cry, maybe once in 4 or 5 years, and that too in private and alone. The last time I let go is when my mother passed away about 2 years ago. I was to overwhelmed when I saw her lying there.
As far as making other people cry, I have never done that, at least not to my knowledge. Rather, I try and cheer up people and try and make them laugh.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
3 Aug 11
I am neither a crybaby nor causing anyone to cry. I don't think I should cry over silly issues but I can of course cry over sad movies. This is the reason why when I would watch sad movies I bring a long a box of tissue paper
Seriously I would not want to cause others to cry. I think that makes me real bad if I would do. As much as possible I want to leave peaceably with all the people around me. I would rather make them laugh than cry.
@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
14 Apr 10
I don't belong to both categories. I am very careful not to make others cry. That is very easy. I don't speak a lot. Whenever we speak a lot there are chances to hurt others feelings without our knowledge. So my tecnique is 'NOT TO SPEAK A LOT'. When I was a child I used to cry for many reasons. Now I have a lot of problems in my life. But I don't cry. I don't know when I stoped crying.
@delrene (158)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
i think i belong to both categories.. i cry lots of times especially when im depressed..there are also a time that i cried because of some silly issues.. i also feel silly that i burst into tears with just a small problem..whenever i think about it i feel so silly.. as for the hobby.. it's not a hobby to make others cry but it can't help that due to some reason it is my fault (my tounge's fault)that they're crying.. there was a time that even my boyfriend cried because of me.. but whatever the reasons i always apologize to them..
@joedollarhuat (580)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
I actually am the bad boy. I make others cry. I guess it is because, when I reject them. Everybody wants somebody and if they don't get what they want, they cry. In a contest, there will be no winner without the losers.