for men: what is sexy for you? for ladies: what is hot for you?

Hello, Markleob. I like this topic. For me, a hot man is one who looks into my eyes and turns my legs to jelly. The eyes definitely have it, but he also needs a good sense of humour, as I like to laugh a lot. And a nice voice - not harsh or screeching, just low and sexy. Lukily for me, my man has all that in spades, so I'm one very happy lady. BTW, I'm a bit chubby and tanned, so I probably wouldn't do it for you, but I have been told I'm sexy, by several men, quite a few of them a lot younger than me.

For me I think tall men are hot coz i think men should be taller than women. I also find men with beard (not that much) hot and also with tan skin tone.

Physically, I prefer a girl who has a flawlessly white skin, a pretty angelic face, and a proportioned body, with a sweet and adorable fragrance. It can really brighten my day. Have nice day! Happy myLotting!

to me hot is a good looking female white or black it dont matter to me, not really skinny or not really heavey. but they must be as pretty inside as the outside. if they are totally hot and have a bad attuide or is a snob then i see them not as hot. to me even some females who's not as pretty are more sexier just because of thier attuide. ok unless they look like they felled out of an ugly tree and hit every branch down

I like white-skinned, chubby type but hey, it still depends on the person. What makes someone sexy is her attitude.

so those are the topics that you guys are talking about when you gather! Hmmm... A good sense of humor is hot for me. I want someone who can make me laugh. I always fall for mr. funny :)

"Hot" to me is someone who cares enough about themselves that it shows. They have true confidence and by this I mean someone who doesn't have to go around bragging about how great they look. They just show it by their attitude and the effort they take in their health and appearance. Anyone that does not drown themselves in Axe body spray also gets my vote.

I am a girl so I would answer the question: what is hot for you? I find the man hotter when he has a stable job, when he can carry his self well, when he is very responsible and know to respect and protect women. I find him even hotter when he is very sensitive to the emotion of a girl. I am more on attitude and character of men than on their physical attributes and features.

sexy, just like what you say, a bit chubby, white skin, it is better to be white touched with red, and is in nice good shape, just like Elizabeth Hurley.

I can give you an example of a hot male in the person of GERARD BUTLER. His built up is enough that could turn a woman's world upside down. Great body, beautiful face,and smart...I give him Two thumbs up for being the best and hot male holywood celeb!...:)

Gingers, blue-eyed blondes, natural big jugs, modest geeks, boss woman, all in all just like Christian Troy said: Beauty is symmetry;

for me ,the hot man is tall, confident, humor, strong body with kindly hearted . the most important is that he can make me happy and laugh. such as my husband ,he is the hot man for me .