what would you do if your boyfriend fails your test?
By mesmerizer
@mesmerizer (110)
India
April 14, 2010 6:37am CST
Suppose you created a fake profile in a social networking site and send your boyfriend a request.You make the fake profile as interesting as possible with pictures of a beautiful girl and talk to your boyfriend pretending to be that pretty girl.But as your boyfriend is not aware of the fact that its you ,he also flirts with that girl.And he also tells that girl that he will break up with you, just to impress the new girl.Things go to such extent that he goes to meet the girl.But of course you would have to reveal the truth then.On hearing that it was your fake profile, he says that he knew it was you, but you are sure he did not know before you told him.What will you do now? Would you forgive him? or will you leave him?
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6 responses
@assinertata (288)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
I don't agree with the thought of putting into test a boyfriend or any person. If you only know how to distinguish an honest or dishonest person, you don't need to create a game that at the end it will break up not only the trust for each other but also the relationship. I call it a game, not a test.
@abirsinha (114)
• India
14 Apr 10
It was a silly thing on your part.. You could have gone ahead and dumped the guy instead of putting him through such a stupid test.. You people would have had respect and trust towards each other in that way...
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@fluffy0315 (53)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
i will give a second chance, but if it still fails then have to leave him.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Apr 10
hi mesmerizer is this a hypothetical question, and test or something
you really did? I mean it seems sort of mean to me in a way as its
a set up, a guy is a guy and the way you young people think unless you are definitely promised to each other anything goes,so I would not be
a bit surprised if he acted like a male and tried to impress this girl.
I would forgive him as the thing seems to be live together but go with anyone you want any way, so whats to get all excited about? now if you and the b oyfriend were r
eally engaged then I would drop him like a hot potato.
eally engaged then I would drop him like a hot potato.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
23 Apr 10
My friend did it once. She had met a guy on a dating site and they had become a couple. One day she decided to test him and she created a fake profile on the site where they had met. She found a beautiful picture on the internet and sent the picture and an email to her boyfriend. He replied to the message and they started chatting. My friend asked him: "Do you have a girlfriend?", he said "No" and he asked her if she wanted to meet. They arranged a date, but my friend never showed up, so she never found out if he actually came. She broke up with him, and I understand why she got angry, I might have reacted the same way if I had been her. On the other she wasn't honest either when she created the profile.
@Beautyfactor (1512)
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14 Apr 10
You mean set up a Honey Trap? That's a little dishonest too isn't it. If I did do it I would just probably continue the flirting for a long time then one day reveal that it was really me.
Howver if it ever went as far as your scenario I wouldn't be a happy bunny at all. I'm that paranoid that I'd probably end up leaving him even thought it was my own fault in the first place.
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@abirsinha (114)
• India
14 Apr 10
If I had been in your situation I would have kicked him out of my life and never talk to him again.. If you trust some1 blindly and he goes out to meet a girl with a view to dump you and make a new girlfriend, then he deserves to be dumped. But you should not act in haste.. First you should know whether he realized that it was a prank or not and acted only to make you jealous or he was seriously unfaithful.. Then only you should take the final call.
Happy Mylotting!!!
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