She Says She Likes Me, But Won't Break Up with Her Boyfriend
By darkdeivu
@darkdeivu (257)
Philippines
April 14, 2010 9:01am CST
Hello My Lot friend out there!. Help my best friend I need to give him advice the situation goes with this, We have a friend girl we known her about 4 years and my best-friend started to got feeling to her about 8 months ago and he never had the courage to tell to our friend because he thought it might ruin his friendship to that girl.
But after 8 months my best-friend tell his feeling and how he like her.The problem is that the girl is going out with another guy for about 5 months. The trouble is that girl and my best friend began to see each other allot and they started to fall each other.
The girl says that she love my best friend but she doesn't want to break up with her boyfriend because she says she is "afraid.
My best friend ask the girl and she said that she love him but the girl says that she love her boyfriend too.
What should I advice to my best friend do you think I tell him to wait things out or forget that girl?
I know my best friend love that girl so much.
Thanks in advance for the advice.
5 responses
@katykicker (231)
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14 Apr 10
The main thing that I would say to your friend is that if someone is willing to cheat on their boyfriend to be with you then do you really want them to be your girlfriend as they could just as easily play you back at the same game in the future.
If she is afraid of breaking up with her boyfriend it's probably because she is enjoying the best of both worlds at the moment. If she was a decent person then she would never have cheated on her boyfriend in the first place and if she thought she really liked someone else and things were going to go further then she should have had the decency to break up with her boyfriend.
I would definitely advise your friend to call things off with her and then maybe her true colours will show as she will probably not tell her boyfriend, keep things to herself and end up staying with her current boyfriend.
This kind of situation is never good and I would not recommend hanging around if I was him/her. It's just going to end in disaster and really I feel sorry for her boyfriend rather than your friend as he is the one that is being cheated on and he is probably going to feel all sorts of emotions when they break up.
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@darkdeivu (257)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
Thats is wonderful advice so far but it's realty hard to let go if you fall in love to her. I know both of them are cheated to girl boyfriend. I will tell your advice to my best friend and get his side on that.
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@persistence2010 (45)
• China
14 Apr 10
look forward...i think let her go is the best way showing how deeply he love her,because it is the best to reduce the sad
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Apr 10
darkdeivu oh she could do it if she really wanted to, she is playing an ugly game but then she is a player, she likes to play both guys, and have the bestof both worlds. she is not going to choose one when she can have both. she is a female player,I would tell you friend to drop her and find a one man girl, someone who loves one person not a whole gang of guys, one who is not a player.
@darkdeivu (257)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
I understand that advice and It's very easy to say but hard to do. If you were their setuition you will feel confuse too know my best friend start to wait to that girl. She said that she need to be alone to know what she feel and who is her love most. I know it's very scared what will happen soon.
@hazelsweetme (199)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
If I were in your friend's situation....I will distance a little. I will give the girl a space. So if she missed me.....that means she do love me. But the question is...whom she love more. If she break her boyfriend that means she loves your friend more. But if he really can't do it...why wait? gotta move on.
@darkdeivu (257)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
I appreciated your advice friend and you have a point on that. Maybe my best friend should have a distance for a while. But what do you think him to do, Do you think it's right to ask the girl who will she choose? or what is the best way ask the girl in a nice way where the girl cannot be confuse in their situation.
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@caliya (1169)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
so i guess it's like i love you but you came too late. i also understand the side of the girl. it's hard to give up a current relationship for the sake of the new found love. who knows that newly found love may not work out and her current relationship will just be put to waste. but sometimes in order for you to find true love you have to take a risk so she should ask the girl to weigh things. if she decides to stick with her current boyfriend then it could be possible that she loves him more than she loves your friend.
