The way to win ur ex-girl friend back....
By Ansen zhu
@mac_fish (723)
China
April 14, 2010 9:33am CST
Well,guys.
I'm sure some of us regret breaking with ex-girlfriend,it's really a bad feeling that one minute u are talking everyday,and the next minute u are never allowed to talk with her again,really the most intimate strangers,right?
So,how to win her back???
1.Find the reason why,it's time to speculate on this issuse.Remember to brush aside the trivial things,just bring urself to the straight,find the key.
2.U 2 still need a period to calm down,to have ur individuals space...
3.Time to move.Foremost principle,stay low and reserved,it's not a time to find a short cut,u 2 are still vulnerable at this moment,just do all the things gradually.Try another way to win her back(absolutely not the same old tricks u have used if u donnt make her sick),gradually............ something fresh,new,romantic,easy.....
1 response
@sugaree (109)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
I guess the most important thing to consider before trying all means to win your girl back is her own feelings. Would she be happier if she gets back with you or would it only make matters worse? I mean, what's the use of doing all those schemes or techniques if the girl would not be happy being in the relationship again. If the girl wants to have ther relationship back, then its not only up to you to make the move. Both of you have to make it work :D
@mac_fish (723)
• China
15 Apr 10
Hi,sugaree
I appreciate ur response here.Ur comments really make sense and I'm encouraged to raise a question "Is it a little selfish for me to do this before know her really feeling".
I think the couple 2 have the same right to make decision,the guide line on top to win her back just shows the way back to love.There is no cheating,camouflage,scam,just express ur really feeling to her, thoughts for her and who u are virtually,that's it.
Then it's ur judge time,wait her decision,so I think all of this should sound fair.
@sugaree (109)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
it would be really good to be able to tell her everything you feel. if she allows you speak with her, and she is willing to listen, then why not? but that would not be an assurance that she would get back with you already. you have to prepare for the fact that she might not want to be with you anymore. if she does realize that she wants to be with you, then that would really be great. and you have to put more effort to make your relationship work. try to earn the respect that she once had for you. but if ever it happens that she decides it would be better if the two of you are apart, then you have to accept it. without regrets because you have tried, and you were able to tell her everything you felt. :D
i do hope everything goes well with you. :D
