I'm beginning to fall in love with someone!
By LIENROSE
@LIENROSE (910)
Philippines
April 14, 2010 9:01pm CST
wtf happening to me, I am beginning to fall in love with my bestfriend.I am afraid of rejection and the fact that our friendship will end up with nothing if I pursue this feeling is a nighmare, ahmmm what will I do
5 responses
@zim1fW (285)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
In addition to that try to check her feelings for you if she feels the same. You know, indirect statements and observe her reactions, etc. You can use this line: "One time my colleagues talked of someone who fell in love with his best friend; when he told her, she was mad at him and never talked to him again. Do you think that's the right way she should have handled it?" Then listent to how she will react to the situation. Would she defend the girl? Disagree with the girl and try to explain why she did not agree? Depending on her reaction you may proceed or not with this line: "If that would happen to me, would you 'kill' me?"
Well, the point is only to get a glimpse on how she feels for you beyond friendship. Then you decide what to do next.
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
15 Apr 10
It makes perfect sence that you would fall in love with your Best friend. I married the man that I became good friends with. You have to be able to look at your partner as a friend because then you can be true to them.
@pree_6 (434)
• India
16 Apr 10
I can completely understand your situation..Instead of worrying about your friendship, its better to let out your feelings instead of being disturbed or getting confused about it ..If your friensdhip is stronger, am sure ur friend would not get annoyed and react to it very calmly..it all depends on your level of friendship and understanding that u have for each other.I too faced a similar situation and me n my friend have decided to be best friends forever..
