What things/behavior you gave up/changed/learned,when you found your true love?

I don't have a "true" love at the moment but i once had a relationship with someone I considered as this. I didn't actually give anything up with him though. He pretty much accepted me the way I was at least for a while. It was that I did change when we started to have a few problems because he wanted me to stay the same exact way as I was when we met but when you are still growing and maturing that isn't really possible as your thoughts and ways of thinking are naturally going to become different. He didn't get that. From him I was inspired to be a better person because he was always so kind and generous to others.

Dear friend Cloud31 Of course if i got true love so i will change my life weather you behavior / thing's etc.I will change to every thing to make happy to my love partner.

oh yes I must admit that my interest on being too lay back goes out the door, I also cut off all communication with other female friends when I am dedicating my attention and affection to that one true love prospect. I feel like moving mountains for my sweet lady.

I wouldnt mind changing for her---after all i'm doing that for the person i loved so much---it feels good to make our loved ones happy they might be your parents,siblings last but not least our partner---i try to make them happy always and i enjoy them being that way.I wouldnt ask my partner to change for me though it depends on how truly they love me.

To be honest. NOTHING AT ALL. I did not give up anything, nor gained anything either. We are much the same and that leaves me to be as i always was. TATA.

Well I can't still found my true love and I wish it will come. I have my boyfriend but since I met him I guess we're really not compatible to each other so we ended up our relationships. If ever I could find my true love someday maybe everything will change.

I am still who I am and don't think I have changed anything. Well, they say zebras can changed its spots, so I think I am that stubborn person who is not moved by love.

I know he gave up skiing. I gave up hanging out with the girls. I remember he and I had some problems with him wanting to spending so much time with his friends and I wanted him to spend time with me. We did do alot together. I don't remember giving up things at all. I kept up my writing and bike riding. Just not hanging out with friends as much.

When i got married, i have had a lot of drastic changes really, behavior-wise and everything else with regard to my bachelor life... what i missed most is going out with my buddies for a night out..hehehe..but anyways i do enjoy more of time spent with the family..

hello for me there was no love affairs, i am married since 1966, mine was an arranged marriage by parents, no dating etc, i am happy with kids grand kids.. i don't think i have any change, i am what i was... Thanks for this nice post, cheers God bless you. Prof

i used to play sports a lot. and i traveled on my own a lot too. now, if i could i bring my family around. i find spending time with my children and family enjoyable and more meaningful. :)

Well as for me, i am a very nice and kind individual, Many of my friends, neighbors or mere acquaintances always commented about how friendly i was, but they didn't know that i am a nagger, and whenever my husband committed even a little mistake, i usually nag or shout at him. This habit of mine continue till i noticed that he feels so sad about this ugly trait of mine. From then on, i promise myself to change it and i can see the effect of this to our relationship. We seldom fight now and our relationship got deeper and smoother unlike before that we almost part ways because of our little fights that leads into a serious fights because of my bad way of conveying what's inside my mind. I learned to give up that bad attitude of mine because i really wanted to show my respect to my husband and im so glad it turned out well and good. Have a nice day Cloud! and God bless...

Since I found my true love, there are a lot of my qualities that have been changed. The top of it is the jealousy character. The first day I met with my husband now, we said frankly what we like and dislike. And he said he wouldn't like jealousy at all, non-negotiable. He explained to me the effect and reasons of jealousy, and I realized he's right and now we are in 5 years relationship and I never felt any jealousy at all. Plus I become more logical, wiser and open-minded. I could see and understand things beyond my previous limits. I learned new things and I am getting used to be seeking more knowledge as he is very intelligent, and autodidact person. I simply become a way better person than before.

If you find your true love your will really change all the bad things you've done and the things that you will not needed for your love. And you can change everything for your true love even the one really important to you. Because you know that it's for the sake of your loving and caring to each other but not so much changing in your personality or else i will argue with that.

i never been in a relationship. All I can share are my crushes and I have never grown up from it, I always have crushes. I do not know in the future if I will be blessed to have someone with me. I have that the day comes that I will be willing to donate my time with him, since I am not getting younger. And the disadvantage of people that are late bloomer like me, some of their relationship will be few only and some might lead to marriage. Promise if I will be having a relationship in the future I will come back to you to share it.

Hello Cloud. To be honest, I wasn't still able to give up and behavior that I already had before I met my beloved boyfriend. However, since at times, these traits become the source of our misunderstanding, I am trying to take control of it so as not to affect our relationship. I was single for quite some time before we entered a relationship. As a result, I've been used to do all things or go out alone. I don't report to anyone or tell my parents where I am unless they're looking for me. During our relationship, he often feels offended of not telling him where I'm going. It makes him feel that he's a different person and I am still isolating myself from our relationship. I partly understand how he feels but there are still times when I don't seem to understand what his point was. But still, I am trying to tell him now wherever I go to because I realize that by small things like that, it makes him feel very acknowledged of our relationship.

I have been dateing a great gal for just over a year now. Now we are togeter and we are happy as can be. the things that changed with me were all of spare time hobbies. this ranged form tv shows an movies I like to computers and internet and podcast listening. I found myslef speing all of my time with her and her intrest than mine. I was missing these things when I was with her but soon got over it becase she was more inportant.

Before I met Tom, I used to visit some of the local bars that had karaoke on a very regular basis. My reasoning for that being that I really like to sing (although I will admit that I would never be able to have a career in singing). However, he is not a person that really likes the bar scene and because of that not too long after we got together, I quit going as well. There are times that I would like to go, but for the most part I will admit that I don't really miss it that much.

I changed myself to become a better person, before I met her play around with different girls but after I knew her I give up all my interest with other girls. Keep smiling cloud!

I never change anything about me,he accepted me for who am I, 100% of being me,learn I think yes,i learned a lot from him,he thought me how to love and to be loved,giving up something I never give up anything for him,we accept each other side no rejection at all.