How often do you hug,quarrel,chitchat,etc with your mom
By earnnings
@earnnings (1325)
India
April 15, 2010 8:57am CST
You see guys, I and my mom definitely love each other and we often chitchat for hours daily. We quarrel on silly issues and fight for some things and somethings but we love each other. I hug my mom daily atleast once per day and the count is minimum here, thath means more number of times per day. I just want to know how often do you hug,quarrel,fight,chitchtat and so on with your mother?
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@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
15 Apr 10
I used to talk to my step-mother daily. I loved talking to her about all kinds of things. Unfortunately, she and my father have split up for good and now we work opposite shifts. When they first separated, I was her rock. She raised me from the age of 12 and though times were rocky, I sometimes believe she actually cares from time to time. I was hurt by my dad's betrayal so I sat and listened to her go on about what my dad did. He basically threw 20 years away for whatever reason. We talked about the kids, houses, cars and the daily drama of my step-sister. I miss those conversations. Wish we could talk more some days.
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@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
15 Apr 10
Hello peedielyn
Nice to meet you.
Your step-mother must be a very good lady. As far as I know, most of step-mothers can't hang out with their step-son or step-daughter. One of my best friends does not talk to her step-mother very much, and she always told me she didn't undertand her step-mother, that's why they don't even look like a family, and most of their talking is "Hi" and "bye".
@earnnings (1325)
• India
16 Apr 10
@peedielyn, i am sorry for you. I think there will be no restriction in talking to her i think. Why is there a problem between your father and mother is their personal issue but i think you are your step mom are happy with the relation. Hope everything will be set right for you buddy.
@Hellomickey..I think both ladies are mutually coordinated so only there is no difference seen between them as step mom or step daughter.
@karen_joyce (25)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
It's nice to hear that you bond a lot with your mom, earnnings. My mom is schizophrenic, a kind of mental disorder. I always had a hard time having a talk and bond with her since she doesn't respond normally as a person. Sometimes I get annoyed with her actions but I do accept her condition. I always treat her normally like every normal person does and give the love she deserves. I just wish she could respond to every "I love you" I say.
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@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
15 Apr 10
Hello earnnings
My mother is the kind of person who doesn't love showing a lot of love to others. I don't know why, I know she loves me, and I of course love her very much. Sometimes, when we cross the road, I want to throw my arm across hers, but she seems not like this. We seldom hug each other, but we do love talk to each other. And we did love quarrelling when I was young, however, I don't quarrel with her when I get older. She doesn't say "I love you" to me but I think she is too shy to say this.
@earnnings (1325)
• India
23 Apr 10
see some believe that showing more love might damage their inner love, i thing this would be the reason....but she might love you very much
@anuraa32 (2446)
• India
15 Apr 10
Well, My mom and I are great friends. I always say she is my best friend. Or if I speak in the language of my students, then she is my bestest friend.
Its not like we dont fight. We fight over many things. And there are times when I catch myself feeling she is getting overbearing. I sometimes feel she is disturbing me unnecessarily or that advice at the time feels unwanted. But then I love her giving me advice.
We speak to each other every day in the evening when I return from work for at least half hour if not more.
@earnnings (1325)
• India
16 Apr 10
oh thats great from you, good cordinance buddy...keep it up..
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@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
I am close to my mother now, if we have time we always chitchat about anything. Just like her friends and activities as well as my son.
I could not hug her almost everyday, because when I leave the house for work she is still sleeping and when I arrived at home they are all sleeping as well.
Fighting and quarrel nope, we never had for the 8 months that I stayed here. Because I just got back from other place.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
23 Apr 10
I could say that we are, but sometimes once we have an argument I would just have to shut up and walk out.
@joedollarhuat (580)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
My mom is a busy bee. Whenever we are in the car, we do chitchat. During dinner when dad is not around, we do chitchat. Hug and quarrel, don't really do that.
@earnnings (1325)
• India
16 Apr 10
Oh i think you are not alone to see such things with busy moms. This is the case with busy mom buddy.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
18 May 10
I hug my mother last mother's day. I am not a typical daughter who are show physically her love. I am just a responsible daughter and useful daughter that when one of the family needs me I am always there. We sometimes argue with my mother but it does not last for a day. sometimes she wants something to do and we are not approving it because it can lead to disaster but there are times she is a stone and don't want to listen to us. about chitchat, we always talk and the topic is from ants to planet venus. Anything that can be a perfect topic we talked about it.
@bluemars (952)
• Australia
16 Apr 10
I wish I had more time on my hands but I don't live with her any longer so it can be hard. I still like to talk over the phone a few times a week and also I like see her at least once or twice a week. I am pretty close with her. I love her so much, she has always been an outstanding person in my life.
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
16 Apr 10
i dont see my mom that often but shes not really affectionate but shes always been there for me and when i visit we do hug and we talk on the phone every few days.. we rarely fight mostly because i just dont bring up issues that i know will cause it (religious types)
@mapuang (612)
• Philippines
20 Apr 10
i spend my whole day (everyday) with my mom as we are business partner. we always talk everyhour. yes of course i love my mom so much. but about the hugs i think i seldom hug my mom maybe occasionally. we have quarrel sometimes about things that we have different views. its good to talk to your mother always.
@bestylish (922)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
Everyday! We fight. She always starts something on me. I'm being quiet minding my own business and then she'll pop and start saying things to me. I don't get what her problem is. Because of this, I sometimes avoid talking to her. She nags as if there's no tomorrow. It's really frustrating. Especially when there are times that you try to defend yourself, it will only make things worse. It's best to just shut up.
I've vented my anger here. Sorry...
@crys7881 (249)
• United States
15 Apr 10
I recently moved to the same town that my mom lives in and I try to see her a few times a week, sometimes it doesn't happen though. We really aren;t that close and it does make me sad, we don't really fight. If something happens that either one of us doesn't like we just won't talk to each other.
@thessay89 (57)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
well, me and my mom don't pretty much talk about stuffs! yea we chitchat but not so often.. my mom is usually away.. after waking up in the morning, she'll be gone by then and when she return home at 8pm, I'm still out with my boyfriend having dinner. after reaching home, i would hook up again with the computer for hours and hours until dawn! by then, she'll be asleep..... we don't usually spend time together,most especially these past few months! were kinda busy.. But despite this, we really argue a lot! heheh we argue about small things, usually stuffs like household chores, etc.... heheh..but it's okay, Were used to her daily sermons! anyways my mom may not be the coolest mom above all else but I'm telling yea, she's one of a kind!