You look like a panda..
By asja1388
@asja1388 (131)
April 15, 2010 10:10am CST
"You look like a panda"- thats what my husband told his mother after she had done permanent eyelining/colouring of her eyelashes in a professional salon. When he first told me I had to laugh, but when I got one of his "compliments" as well like "your nails look like they are having a disease" after having my nails freshly painted I was real upset. The thing is he hates make up and always discourages me to do so. He tells me these chemicals are harmful for my skin and he prefers it natural/
For me I am not a big fan neither but I am a woman and I do like to make up and dress up sometimes. Besides I believe for make up less is more.
What about your partner-does he like you using make up? Or if you are a man- do you like you partner to use make up? Why? Why not?
I am just intersted what others think about it...
2 responses
@newtalent (1112)
• United States
15 Apr 10
That was not nice of him to say that to his mother even if he did not like it. Name calling is a form of abuse and should not be tolerated. He appears to not have much respect for himself or family. If he dislikes it then he should be with someone that feels the same. Not trying to change any relationships here. A person needs to comfortable in their body and if it makes them feel good then so be it.
He likes what makes me happy. He accepts me for me and no name calling whatsoever. Respect all the way. Makes relationships last longer. He likes makeup, hair done, nails done, but it is not a must. Take care...
@asja1388 (131)
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15 Apr 10
Oh, thats alright with me- I dont see it as a form as abuse and he knows. Its more amusing for me...
My man knows what hurts me and wouldnt do it then...
with the relationship thing I think that you cant chose with whom you fall in love, like me, I dont like some of my hubby's character but I still love him very much, the same with him.
Thanks for sharing though
