People who only dissapoint you!
By saphrina
@saphrina (31551)
South Africa
April 15, 2010 12:16pm CST
Why is it that everytime you think you have this good friend or even someone you are close to dissapoint you so much? Why do we even bother? I think that from now on, i am not going to make any new friends and those i have, just tough luck for them.
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13 responses
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
My B... I am sorry for the absence, now I am worried with this post, I know you are angry... please calm down angel...
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@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
ok, thanks my B... at least I know....
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Apr 10
Maybe it's disappointing when a friend turns out not to be the kind of friend you are looking for, but if you don't try and make new friends, you might miss out on missing somebody really terrific.
@vandana7 (100699)
• India
15 Apr 10
Where did I go wrong sweetie? :) You should spell your expectations as and when they come up. Otherwise you may set yourself up for this disapointment. :) Any such expectations should also be reasonable I suppose. :)
@langjipingzong (981)
• China
16 Apr 10
Well, it seem s I am lukier than you.I don't found there such a people around me.As to me,I am not so confident to myself,so if someone always dissapoint me,I would be very hopeless maybe.So if I meet this kind of people in the future I will surely get away from them.
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
I know now my B... I know who was implied....
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@Gany15k (1673)
• India
15 Apr 10
Disappointing doesn't really mean hurting..from their point of view it may be right..If I'm fighting with my friend then it really doesn't mean that I'm hating him..its just small problem..I know it hurts..but I never lose those relationships...
@Gany15k (1673)
• India
15 Apr 10
If he did that again then I will slap him ...I don't mind..then i won't talk to him..but when he comes and says sorry again I apologize then I will accept it for sure...its human nature to do mistakes..it takes 2 or 3 times to correct or recognize the effect of that...
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
14 May 10
hey sweety, everything cooled down and you're accepting new friends already?
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
14 May 10
so can i be your fwen too...
oh yeah...you accepted me already hehe..
@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
17 Apr 10
Hmm.. seems I requested you at right time, so that I could be one. I don't know why we care, but we do. That's why I'm sulking these days a lot...
Wish you all the best. And well, I notice some "men.." expressions a lot recently!
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
16 Apr 10
Hey saphrina! Now calm down for a minute! I know that people
always seem to disappoint us in our lives, but that is just
how life is and the sooner you get used to it the better off
you will be! Life sucks and so do most of the people we deal
with! I get the feeling that someone you were "friend's" with
disappointed you! Well, that is the way things go in this world
and you just have to be more careful about who you trust and who
you take as a "friend"! Friends come and go and it is very rare
that you will find a "true friend" that will stay and be a "real
friend" that you can truly trust and that won't disappoint you!
Just keep an open mind and open heart and be careful who you pick
and take in to your confidence!
@tomcat23 (622)
• Old Forge, Pennsylvania
15 Apr 10
I truly don't think its a matter of making friends, its a matter of being a friend that gets you friends. There is a great deal of networking online, and just because someone invites you to join their network, it doesn't mean they are a friend. The friendship begins when they pay attention to you, your feelings, your desires, your likes and dislikes. It begins when they take the time to get to know you and in turn let you get to know them. Lets face facts, the internet has indeed opened up new horizons for everyone who uses it. It gives us the opportunity to meet people who otherwise were unknown to us.
@hexeduser22 (7418)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through all this I hope by now you are okay. I'm sorry that I couldn't lend a hand or a shoulder at the right moment. I really hope by now you are okay. I wish I could give you hug right now just to make you feel that you got a friend in me
@cloud31 (5809)
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15 Apr 10
Hope I'm not the cause of your disappointments,and if I ever did, I'm sorry about it,the only thing I'm getting close to you is just purely and mainly friendship if sometimes I did something that could me you disappointed just because I cannot be that perfect but I can be better but for sure I can't be the best!
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
15 Apr 10
We are all passing very bad days to tell you frankly. Days have become so critical that we cannot believe any one these days. Even some friends are very cunning only because of selfishness and to gain favor from us.
Slowly I am also keeping away from friends to avoid lot of negativity in them.Not only that because of no reason we invite quarrel by helping in giving money.
Enough of my experience with these people.
@alth124 (16)
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1 May 10
I think there will also be people how would disappoint us in one way or another.
What I have learnt over the years is to expect anything form anyone.
That way you would be disappoint when there do something to you.