cheating...should be blame to?

I agree with you! A woman should be smart enough to think about those things that way. I really hate mistresses cause I think something's wrong with their heads. They are not smart and they justify their actions for saying that they are in love. I dont think they understand these things at all. They dont know the meaning of the word love. What makes me even more angry about mistresses is that they highly think about themselves when they should be ashamed. Women should be smart enough so they wont become mistresses.

A single girl should not flirt with a married guy, she should used her mind not her heart, and be considerate with the guy's wife feelings. She should stop texting and flirting..as for mcgee's reason I don't agree with her,to have a relationship there are always two people involve as the saying goes it takes two tango.

In this situation, what she is saying is utter bull. She's just trying to place the blame on the guy and make herself look like the innocent party which isn't the case. I mean, she must have known that the guy was married and she could have flat out told him "NO" when he was flirting or whatever with her. I seriously think the blame lies with both the man and the woman.

I blame it on both parties. The husband and the mistress.Of course the husband should not be looking. The mistress once she knows he is married she should walk away. However there are females out there just looking for a married man because they don't want the baggage that comes with a marriage. So they rather remain a mistress. If females learned to walk away once they know the man is married men would not be able to cheat but as long as the tramps are out there the men will continue to cheat. As for both Tiger and Jesses all the mistresses involved knew that they were married so they are the tramps and the blame is 60% theirs in my opinion. Mistresses just disgust me and I think they are the lowest of the low.

If the mistress knows or even suspects the man is married, it is her responsibility to end it. If he dupes her, and she does not know, then he is fully responsible for his own actions. It takes two to tango, and if she knew and went along with the dance, then she is in it up to her knees.

For me as woman, it should be the woman should be blame. Why did I say this? Because, it is natural to men to be polygamous, it is sad to say but that is how I observed to men. Therrfore it is the woman's responsibility to be sensitive enough to the feeling of her fellow woman. Even if the show to the woman that he likes her if the woman will ignore him specialy if the man is already married cheating will not happen.

i don't think any woman should be fooling around with any married men at all. yes, the girls are liable as well for the cheating. they don't have to go with them.

..hi.. I think most of the time, men are liable since they don't usually tell everyone that they met that they are married and women are deceived.. only to find out that the men they are with is already married.. we say that we, women should know the man first before we decide to get into a relationship with them, but some men are really good in denying and deceiving right.. but there are also women I knew who still insist flirting with married men and I hate those kind.. I'm married and whenever I see somebody flirting with my husband in my presence, I'd like to spank them.. I always tell my husband to frankly tell his acquaintances that he's married because I don't like to make those flirting women as big deal for us.. there was a time when a woman texted my husband with sweet messages and I told the woman that the guy she's texting is married and I am his wife.. and the women still has the guts to tell me, "so what?" my goodness.. what kind of woman is that.. texting my husband if he has eaten already? if he can fetch her? that really get into my nerve and I told my husband to get rid of her.. I don't like to interfere with my husbands friends and activities but I'm also concerned with our relationship.. that's why both party should be blamed I guess.. not only one..

unless it is a rape, to which some inscrutable people say a woman still has something to do (way of dressing, carelessness, walking home alone at night or in secluded places) an affair or mere getting pregnant without the male owing up to the act or even if he does would have a lot to do with the woman (basically) opening her legs. the key may be there but without the lock making its presence felt and showing where the hole to insert the key then nothing would take place, right?

Ahhh. Cheating is a two-way game, unless you're cheating with yourself. I don't see why you can only blame the guy, cause isn't it that without the woman's consent then there wouldn't be cheating in the first place?

blaming won't actually help. in my own opinion. but someone should take the blame, responsibly.